“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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How to avoid a potential bar/club fight

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As well all know, fighting is not cool as it can land you in jail, the hospital or both. A potential fight might be on your mind everytime you visit any of these places.

If you keep these things in mind, you should not really have any problems.

These are things I have read, witnessed myself and heard from people I know.


1.) Stay away from bars/clubs where you don't fit in. (E.g. if you are white, stay away from bars/clubs that are predominantly black/hispanic and if you are black stay out of redneck hillbillie bars. This also includes Motorcycle gang bars and dive bars with lots of military guys there. If you don't fit in, someone might still pick a fight with you for no reason.

2.) Don't get too intoxicated where you are spilling beers on people or acting like a jackass. Someone is bound to get fed up and knock you out.

3.) Don't verbally disrespect another mans woman.

4.) Don't physically grab another mans woman or touch any woman against her will.

5.) Unless you are 100% positive that a guy standing near a girl you have had you eyes on all night is NOT her boyfriend/husand/fiance.. DO NOT APPROACH girls who have guys with them or near them (even if you are getting good vibes) Some men are insecure and might start a fight with you even if it was an innoncent mistake.


Follow these five rules, and you should have no problems at all when going to bars/clubs.

I have been doing this for 12 years and only had one small incident (I was way too drunk).
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I have been doing this for 12 years and only had one small incident
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You accidentally got laid once?

Man, going to bars--do not confuse with lounges--is all about pushing the envelope.

I routinely break most of those rules, and as long as you got a smooth tongue and don't rub it in after you disrespect him, its not too hard to diffuse the situation.

I'll lay down a few ground rules that I follow in bars:

1) Anything goes.

2) Anything goes.

3) Don't disrespect the bartender.

4) Anything goes.

5) Anything goes.

6) Make friends with the staff and hired muscle, they can bail you out of anything, trust me.

7) EVERYTHING GOES!

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Being politically correct is for the workplace where the hammer can really fall on you there. I'm not going to curb my masculinity in case I'll end up having to lay the smack down on some drunk kid.

Learn from experience and trial and error, not from fear.
 
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Avoid a fight? Why? Kick someones ass man, anything goes its in public, kick to the balls, punch to the face and get it over with.
 
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HandyAndy said:
Avoid a fight? Why? Kick someones ass man, anything goes its in public, kick to the balls, punch to the face and get it over with.
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Tough little turd. Aren't ya?
 
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Avoid a fight because it's stupid in the first place. I used to get into a lot of them. Now I do anything to avoid them because no matter what...they always lead to trouble.
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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****

why are u STILL giving advice on things u know nothing about?

how much experience do u have? just tell us that
 
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Every man should at least have one fist fight in his life...
 
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How much can you really know about yourself if you've never been in a fight?
-Tyler Durden (the real one)
 
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lol . So you guys are saying that we should fight huh ?

No man thats bad idea because its bad to get your ass kicked for no reason .

Fight should be last solution .

Im saying this for guys that goes out with wussy friends that would leave him in bad cases . Most of friends are wussy .
Try to get some real friends .
 
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Quiksilver said:
You accidentally got laid once?

Man, going to bars--do not confuse with lounges--is all about pushing the envelope.

I routinely break most of those rules, and as long as you got a smooth tongue and don't rub it in after you disrespect him, its not too hard to diffuse the situation.

I'll lay down a few ground rules that I follow in bars:

1) Anything goes.

2) Anything goes.

3) Don't disrespect the bartender.

4) Anything goes.

5) Anything goes.

6) Make friends with the staff and hired muscle, they can bail you out of anything, trust me.

7) EVERYTHING GOES!

--

Being politically correct is for the workplace where the hammer can really fall on you there. I'm not going to curb my masculinity in case I'll end up having to lay the smack down on some drunk kid.

Learn from experience and trial and error, not from fear.
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Haha yeah i think quicksilver said it.
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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DJVladdy said:
How much can you really know about yourself if you've never been in a fight?
-Tyler Durden (the real one)
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You kids and your fight club references. Fighting has not validity in other aspects of your life. Cool, youre overly aggressive and want to beat up everyone...thats how you end up in jail, ****.

BTW....fight club isnt real life.
 
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stuka1939 said:
1.) Stay away from bars/clubs where you don't fit in. (E.g. if you are white, stay away from bars/clubs that are predominantly black/hispanic and if you are black stay out of redneck hillbillie bars. This also includes Motorcycle gang bars and dive bars with lots of military guys there. If you don't fit in, someone might still pick a fight with you for no reason.

2.) Don't get too intoxicated where you are spilling beers on people or acting like a jackass. Someone is bound to get fed up and knock you out.

3.) Don't verbally disrespect another mans woman.

4.) Don't physically grab another mans woman or touch any woman against her will.

5.) Unless you are 100% positive that a guy standing near a girl you have had you eyes on all night is NOT her boyfriend/husand/fiance.. DO NOT APPROACH girls who have guys with them or near them (even if you are getting good vibes) Some men are insecure and might start a fight with you even if it was an innoncent mistake.
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I agree with #3 and #4. The rest of the "rules" are garbage.
 
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You kids and your fight club references. Fighting has not validity in other aspects of your life. Cool, youre overly aggressive and want to beat up everyone...thats how you end up in jail, ****.

BTW....fight club isnt real life.
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True, but letting a fear of fighting and confrontation control one's actions is equally bad.

I'm not encouraging guys to go out beating dudes up, but I am encouraging us to go out and have fun, knowing that confrontation is something you just have to learn to deal with, not avoid.
 
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No situation can boil so hot

that a little flame marijuana can't bring it to a nice chill


Carry a joint wit you...when things are about to get outta hand...make your peace offering
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I also agree with 3 and 4. The others are bound to happen one time or another whether its by accident or choice. What I think the poster is trying to say that most of you clearly arent getting is simply RESPECT. Those of you willing to break 3 and 4 are most likely the guy getting beaten and charged with sexual assualt rather than the beater.
 
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ChrizZ said:
Every man should at least have one fist fight in his life...
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Ha....join a competitive physical sport such as football or wrestling. I did both in HS and have been in several fist fights...let me tell you....there really isn't much of a difference...especially with wrestling. That sport is hard as hell and you get your ass kicked plenty in both practice and matches.
 
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young men like to romanticize fighting, just like they romanticize other tests of manhood, imagining that war for example could be a really cool experience. My great-grandpa actually ran away from home at 16, enlisted in the British army, lying that his age was 18, and was sent to fight in the trenches in WWI (Gallipoli among others). He served in the British military for 50-some years. His advice to my father: stay the h*ll out of the military!

something similar applies to fighting, I think.
 
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stuka1939 said:
As well all know, fighting is not cool as it can land you in jail, the hospital or both. A potential fight might be on your mind everytime you visit any of these places.

If you keep these things in mind, you should not really have any problems.

These are things I have read, witnessed myself and heard from people I know.


1.) Stay away from bars/clubs where you don't fit in. (E.g. if you are white, stay away from bars/clubs that are predominantly black/hispanic and if you are black stay out of redneck hillbillie bars. This also includes Motorcycle gang bars and dive bars with lots of military guys there. If you don't fit in, someone might still pick a fight with you for no reason.

2.) Don't get too intoxicated where you are spilling beers on people or acting like a jackass. Someone is bound to get fed up and knock you out.

3.) Don't verbally disrespect another mans woman.

4.) Don't physically grab another mans woman or touch any woman against her will.

5.) Unless you are 100% positive that a guy standing near a girl you have had you eyes on all night is NOT her boyfriend/husand/fiance.. DO NOT APPROACH girls who have guys with them or near them (even if you are getting good vibes) Some men are insecure and might start a fight with you even if it was an innoncent mistake.


Follow these five rules, and you should have no problems at all when going to bars/clubs.

I have been doing this for 12 years and only had one small incident (I was way too drunk).
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this is dumb..i spill beer and hit on girls with guys everytime i go out and no one says **** to me...hell ive even spit on people (accidently) and gotten away with it!!

fighting gets girls horny it is a scientificly proven fact and my personal experience supports this
 
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oakraiderz2 said:
BTW....fight club isnt real life.
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I actually was thinking about starting a SoSuave Fight Club.

I've probably already broken the number one rule by posting about it, so PM me for details. :crackup:
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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