Hi,
Yeah, I was born and raised in Iran, but I've been living here for the past 12+ years with my immediate family (parents and 2 sisters). I'm a US citizen and my English speaking/writing/communication skills are beyond that of the average American. I definitely don't have problems understanding anyone, and I figured you meant something mean by that train wreck face of yours, but I just wanted to double check cuz that's pretty mean, even if it's a joke ~

To tell you the truth, I feel like I'm 17 again because I'm back to square one when it comes to relationships. About 7-8 months ago a 3.5 year relationship that I wanted to result in marriage ended and I've been recovering ever since. Although I know the kind of person I want to be with, it's really hard for me to be able to feel comfortable with someone else and trust him and take it one step at a time, because I don't want to be in this stage of life. I was already 17 six years ago and I have progressed to a point where I want a serious relationship. But now I have to start all over again and I can't do it in a non-biased way because I base things on my previous relationship (as a standard) and that's neither right, nor fair to a new guy. So what I'm looking for is for a guy to get me back into the dating/exploring zone so that I can evaluate things with an open mind. Once I find the right guy and we click, he will not be missing anything from me. I don't need a man in my life for anything. I'm independent and I can take care of all my needs. But I have a huge gaping hole in my heart where my ex used to be and it must be filled because I have the need to love someone (obviously not just anyone, but the right person).

If I start describing the qualities I'm looking for, it will end up as a perfect man. I became somewhat superficial in my last relationship because my ex had been body-building for 8-9 years and was in excellent shape, and no matter how hard I try now, it's hard for me to disregard looks and focus on other things like interpersonal relationship, ability to talk about anything and everything, having good chemistry, having intellectual conversations. I want a guy who matches me in terms of career goals (goal oriented, dedicated, and wanting to do something good for self and humanity), dedication to physical fitness and mental and physical health, and an extremely open mind when it comes to other people, religions, cultures etc. Life is so fragile and unpredictable. My ideology is when you find something good (someone with whom you share a lot of common goals and feelings) and when you develop feelings of love, you should take that and build on it, instead of wonder if there is someone else out there who might be better. That's a waste of the opportunity to build a great relationship based on the good things that you already found. I don't know anything about what you are doing with your life. Can you give me a brief bio and what you have planned for yourself and how you're working toward those goals? ~Me

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IranBabe said:

My current ambitions are leaning more towards working on my body and
health... studying various subjects and expanding my mind and working
on becoming a better man. I'm not going to go into any great detail
and try to hardcore sell myself to you, but I assure you I'm not some
drunken bum doing nothing with my life. A man should be continually
evolving, and that's what I'm doing. I loathe to just sit and
stagnate when I could be improving.

The content of the above paragraph was awesome.



Now honestly tell me, are you a fun girl? Do you laugh and joke a
lot? Or are you just depressed because of your last relationship?
You sound really serious in how you write, but that could be because
you write more formally than most people. What are your hobbies? Do
you like to cuddle and kiss? If we started dating would you happily
slip into my arms and enjoy the closeness or are you more standoffish?
Are you a good kisser? I'm not sure if you really answered what you
personally are offering to a guy.


The definition of fun varies from person to person. I consider myself fun, but I don't know if you would. I'm all about living life to the fullest and enjoying it as much as I can, in a safe way. I don't like to drink (I might have a fruity margarita every once in a while). I don't and will never smoke anything and I have never and will never do drugs. I do laugh and joke a lot, especially when I'm with the right people. If I don't know someone that much, it's harder for me to be myself. I am a very serious person about life, but it's a combination of seriousness and living life to the fullest. I can't really describe it, but if you met me you'd know what I'm talking about. I like middle eastern dancing, arts and music in general, I love swimming, the beach is my favorite place to be, I like outdoorsy things and I like to sitesee. I don't think it's necessarily what it is that I'm doing that makes the situation fun, it's more the people I'm with, cuz you could be doing nothing but having a fun conversation and that's what matters.


The physical questions are kind of out of place. I do not kiss on the first date(s), and I don't think I'd have sex with anyone unless I felt that I'm in love with the person. I'm not a ho in any way shape or form. I have a lot of respect for myself and my body, and I don't think that just anyone should deserve to enjoy me physically. The void in my life is not physical, it's emotional. Once I feel comfortable enough with someone, and definitely once there's feelings of love, it would be hard to stop me from showering my partner with physical and emotional affection. After a while of dating, of course I would love to be cuddling and kissing and being close. I'm a normal human.

I am offering everything to a guy, but at the appropriate stages. I think I kinda explained myself above.


I'm a people person and I like to interact in person and on the phone, not through email/chat/or txt.

Where do you live? If you're interested, I think we should talk in person rather than online. Let me know what you think?

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