I'm a nice guy, I'm always nice to people I meet (Not loser nice, but I'm a gentleman) and recently a girl slept over and obviously immature teens (like my roommates and the people I hang out with) make a big deal out of this. Now when I go out I'm perceived as a pervert. Why is it so wrong to get with a girl now a days? My roommate's GF told me to **** off (she has only known us for 2 weeks or so) when I said she should bring friends with her next time since all we did was sit around and watched tv as they snuggled and kissed.

So anyways why am I labeled a pervert for this? Why do a lot of people seem to hate me after this? All was fine until I got with this girl, and I have never cheated and never used a girl (The girls I have been with knew it was only a one night thing and were okay with it). Thank God I'm transfering next year, this sh*t is nuts.

Oh and I have had no issues with women before. And I also don't inappropriatly touch girls either. I feel as though I'm just being used as a scapegoat or just to make them feel better when they are down. I'm not afraid to tell someone what is up, but this situation is mind-boggeling

I know a lot of you guys don't know me, so giving an answer probably isn't easy. It just seems like my world has flipped, and it's slowly killing my confidence. I mean I'm generally good with the women; maybe this is all in my head? I hope so...

lol .. U look like pervert cuz ur immature friends probably said that she slept with you and these things to everyone .. This is not what they like . But anyway i can tell you just one thing .

KEEP MOVING .. Forget about this story . Start picking other girls , have fun with your friends ..

Why do you care so much what her friends think of you ?? fvck them .. Continue life .

And one more thing .. Dont try to change theyre mind .. They hate you - OK u dont hate them . Just forget about them . I think ur not pervert so just keep doing ur thing , have fun and they will come back to you after a few days/months .

Hey thanks, I kind of lost my way there. I honestly don't know why I suddenly cared so much.