“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Time for Attract and Qualify

Jamal

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Just what to let you guys know that this site is awesome and has helped me a lot and monday im goin back to school and ready to meet some hot chicks. The last quick question that I need to know is how long is it good to do the Attraction and Qualification stage in HS. It is recommended that the attraction stage should be 2-10 minutes and the qualification stage the same. But im asking you guys...how long would you do each stage??
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I wouldn't focus on the amount of time it takes but quality of the attraction and how extensive your qualification criteria. A lot of guys will qualify by just two things;
  1. Is she attractive
  2. Is she interested
This is why guys get hooked up with women they deem as psycho. No, you don't need to get their psychological medical history but come on, it takes more than a pair of nice tits in order to tell whether a woman is a game player.
 

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This isn't linear nor is it any time frame...

This stuff comes down to calibration and should also be mixed around depending on the situation.

If the chick already has her attention on you, giggling and still standing and interacting with you then attraction is already done. In this case there isn't much stuff needed to be done as far as attraction go.

If the chick was locked up and being very unresponsive, you'd be in attraction and could end up being in attraction for hours depending on how unresponsive she is. Though most guys will eject 2mins after they realize she's unresponsive because they don't like what's going on in the set.

If a chick was already attracted you could skip attraction and just qualify a chick, most chicks who I know is already attracted...(Seems to be every chick lately) I always qualify them right off the opener.

For me it's all about not overgaming and always moving the set forward. To do attraction stuff when you've already got attraction is an overkill and will push the set backwards. Thats not to say you can't do attraction stuff, it just means use it when it's needed.
 

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Thanks a lot for the reply "Snow Plowman"... I think that is the best answer I needed.
 
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