I met a cute 35 year old at a salsa class, I see her face in the class each time I attend (it’s like 10 classes now). I am 24 years old and still have my V card. I got a chance to dance with her last class, and while doing so I did not expect to get anything in return (i.e. sex). I totally dismissal of her for any relationship, created a unique situation where the interaction just seemed natural. We teased each other and had plenty of laughs. We had a great time, as I simply did not care, and only wanted to have a good time.

Now when the class was done, I gather my stuff and start heading out. I exit through the first door, and then I see chatting with a fellow female student, we exchange a quick glance and she begins walking right out in front of me. She held the second door open for me. I wanted to say something but I didn’t. You know how it is, I get tongue tied when I like a girl/women. Should I have said something to her?

It’s like I want it, but I am not showing or being aggressive enough. Do guys have to chase the woman to have the woman understand the men’s attraction and get turned on? BTW the interaction I had resembles that of the 40-year old virgin, when he jokes around with the girl (who owned the ebay store in the movie). I swear I did not think about sex at all with her, but it was such a good time. Now I am thinking I would love to have a tutor , but don’t want to over think-it, as I then tend to fuc4things up.

Cheers

Anyone ?

I don't think it should be a proud thing to say your actions "resemble 40 year old virgin".

Do you want to get your life straight? Don't get me wrong, I'm sure you have a lot going on, but if you're still holding your V-card at 24 you need get out there!

You're not going to want sex badly until you have it, trust me. I wasn't really balls to the walls about approaching women till I lost my V-card. It's sort of like a confidence thing I guess.

Instead of hiding in your shell, try something new bro. Instead of playing it "safe" with this girl and messing around like you're two girls, say something ballsy to her.

You're never going to know unless you try. You learn a lot from mistakes.

if you don't wanna fvck them then you shouldn't chase them!

and good luck to you brother, you only have 17 more years till you beat your favorite movie character's v-card record

WC2 said:

I don't think it should be a proud thing to say your actions "resemble 40 year old virgin".

Do you want to get your life straight? Don't get me wrong, I'm sure you have a lot going on, but if you're still holding your V-card at 24 you need get out there!

You're not going to want sex badly until you have it, trust me. I wasn't really balls to the walls about approaching women till I lost my V-card. It's sort of like a confidence thing I guess.

Instead of hiding in your shell, try something new bro. Instead of playing it "safe" with this girl and messing around like you're two girls, say something ballsy to her.

You're never going to know unless you try. You learn a lot from mistakes.

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I thought he got along well int he movie with the brunette, they had a great time and eventually started banging. Hmm... Something balsy... it's been to long since I even done that, actually never.. lol.. Any examples of a balzy comment you made yourself?

drak_ool said:

if you don't wanna fvck them then you shouldn't chase them!

and good luck to you brother, you only have 17 more years till you beat your favorite movie character's v-card record

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lol

Ballsy comments (all field tested):

1) hug her and accuse her of grabbing your ass...before she can respond walk away

2) where a cool belt. Ask her if she likes your belt. When she looks at it say "No, look at my belt, not my c*ck" and walk away.

3) next time you see her in conversation, interrupt and say (looking at her) "I completely disagree with everything you're saying." Then walk away.

Be sure to say these things in a playful way.

The major key is to walk away IMMEDIATELY after saying these things. Do not wait around for a response. If you deliver them right, she'll come after you.