Alright you punks.. listen up.

I'm sick and tired of your whining, flaming, posturing and childish tantrums.

I try to come back and have the same good times I did years ago, but most of you are so busy trying to prove how cool and righteous you are, that its sucking the fun right out of this place.

Your smug complacency and fragile egos have cast a dark shadow over this community. The overwhelming majority of douche-bags has succeeded in alienating cool people, thanks to their high and mighty attitudes.

I'd like to take this opportunity to say a heart-felt "FUKK YOU" to all you fools out there who think you are better than the next man. Your selfish and spiteful nature makes me want to vomit in your face.

Having gotten that out of my system, let me say to those same people that I know you got potential like anyone else and we all get lost sometimes.

In the end though we are all brothers in this game called life, and that's precisely what makes me sick to my stomach.. instead of realizing your potential and helping elevate each other's game, you'd rather be absorbed by drama and act like rabid monkeys hurtling feces at each other? Come on.

Where is the noble spirit that once had me so hooked on this place? It shows its face so rarely that I have forgotten what it looks like. What happened to that collective inspiration we once felt from contributing our ideas and molding them into greater truths? Where is the sheer brilliance that justifies the massive egos around here? I dont see it.

Remember how this place used to be? We were unstoppable back then! Enlightening convos and good laughs were the norm around here before it became a reality show warzone for drama queens.

Well I got news for you c0cksuckers.. this type of entertainment is for losers who have no lives of their own, all parasites and attention wh0res who think that self improvement is all about hating on people, or watching people hate on each other.

We need to stop attacking each other and learn to have open minds, if we hope to achieve and even surpass our former glory. Sosuave is totally capable of rising from its ashes, but one man can't do it alone.

Who is with me here? Is this place even worth fighting for anymore?
Someone needs to convince me cuz I'm not so sure ...

One thing is certain though.. what SoSuave needs more than anything right now is a good, solid b!tch slap.

WAP, B!TCHES!!!

Lol, be careful calling people b!tches here.

You are coming across as abrasive.

SO are you going to stick around then, and help raise the masses from the bitter swamps of misery???

Sosuavers who distrust me, I would like to say my main purpose here (besides my own selfish reasons), is to give hope. I don't like seeing guys post that it is a hopeless situation out there, and that women are mindless, moral-less vamps with no judgement or intellect.

I don't like to see postings that claim there is no point in actually relating to a woman, because they are incapable of logic.

I don't like to see posts like this: A Load Of Crap.

More crap.

There has ALWAYS been a deluge of negative and bitter posters here at sosuave, but there has always been a roster of guys who balanced that out with solid, positive advice. That does not seem to be the case these days. It is ALARMING.

I KNOW we won't always see eye to eye because I am a female, but I actually do possess some logic, it is just different than yours. And if our ideas are different on techniques, that is fine, but I can't just let anyone come here and read how awful "womankind" is. Same as I don't let any of my girls in real life sit around and believe all men are dogs, anymore. They are just as resistant to hear that as you guys are to hear me stick up for women.

WHY try to learn how to attract women, if they are just vile creatures in the end? Once you change your outlook to a more positive and hopeful tone, then you can truly begin to absorb the wisdom of sosuave.

And... Don't hate in 08!

PS, when I call some of you pvssies, that is a b!tch slap. I know you don't like those coming from a girl. I apologize ahead of time, but it may have to be done here and there.

Señor Fingers said:

Alright you punks.. listen up.

I'm sick and tired of your whining, flaming, posturing and childish tantrums.
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I'd like to take this opportunity to say a heart-felt "FUKK YOU" to all you fools out there who think you are better than the next man.

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That seems somewhat contradictory, but I agree with your post this place has gone downhill. I like most of your advice but you seem to be doing what you're speaking against in this post.

The Inside Man said:

That seems somewhat contradictory, but I agree with your post this place has gone downhill. I like most of your advice but you seem to be doing what you're speaking against in this post.

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You are going to p!ss him off. This is just a b!tch slap. He is going to think you all are pvssies, and go away again!

Fingz, some of these guys are really sensitive these days, and I was going to tell you that exteme negativity (even if you are asking for positivity) isn't well recieved. (can hear fingz in her head "I don't give a FVCK".)

...And out of the ashes a hero returned. Señor Fingers!

You don't know who I am but I am glad you are back. You don't know who I am but you changed my life.

There are still people here who are doing good. Don't let anyone else ruin it for them. Isn't this place worth fighting for?

iqqi said:

You are going to p!ss him off. This is just a b!tch slap. He is going to think you all are pvssies, and go away again!

Fingz, some of these guys are really sensitive these days, and I was going to tell you that exteme negativity (even if you are asking for positivity) isn't well recieved. (can hear fingz in her head "I don't give a FVCK".)

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Shut up and play with your dolls. I'm sick of your constant bullsh!t. Leave this forum.

As for Fingers:

The problem is this forum has gotten too big. There is no control anymore. Every good thread disappears within a few hours because of the zillions of AFC pu$$y threads that are created each hour on here.

I just don't think the solution to negative threads is another negative thread calling people punks and pussies...it's just an internet forum, who really cares what happens here? I try to offer advice based on my experience and help people out when I can. Senor Fingers no disrespect intended, I read alot of your material when I first got on this site and found it quite helpful.

Iqqi, in all the time I have browsed this board and since I have registered, I have never read one of your posts and thought, wow that was really good advice, or hey that needed to be said. You're little inside jokes and such are no more a help to the forum than the negative posts, and just as annoying. Just more clutter to add to all the BS here. over 2000 posts and still nothing useful to say, what a shame.

Remember what others have said in the past...take what you can from the forum, if it doesn't fit in your life don't use it. Don't stress out too much over people that are stuck in the same cycle and won't listen to advice. I come here to entertain myself if I am browsing the net and sometimes pick up a nugget of helpful advice, but those nuggets are few and far between now.

Shut up and play with your dolls. I'm sick of your constant bullsh!t. Leave this forum.

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And that, fine gentlemen, is exactly what Fingers is talking about.

Senor Fingers you have many great points and, in an ideal world with fuzzy carebears running around picking daisies on a field of green under a sky of blue, it would be great.

However many people have just as many different perspectives, backgrounds, and situations that shape us. Lots of us act rudely not out of being a bad or bitter person--as you might suspect--, but instead as a defense mechanism for our own ego.

Lots of us act all bad and tough, just as the little white fluffy poodle barks menacingly at the rottweiler.

Some of us just aren't yet ready to face reality and grab it by the grapes, and this thread is just going to bring out the worst in people as they defend their current self...