“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Judging her character and yours: Two simple tips

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1. The first way to find out what kind of girl / lady she is see how she treats others that do nothing to/for her. Just watch how she deals with total strangers. Seriously she has no reason to act like a total b*tch to someone she hardly knows. If she does then you can easily tell she has a really crappy personality because she instantly judged that person and have no clue about acting like a lady.

2. If you want to judge the character of girlfriend quickly, start by looking at the close friends she hangs out with and her parents.

Likes attract likes. It's just one of the universal rules of attraction.
If a woman hangs out with a lot of gold diggers, then most of the time she will be a gold digger too even if she hides it well. How do you think people get along with each other? We find common interests and usually DO the common interest.

If a man hangs out with a lot of liars and scammers, then most of the time he will be a liar scammer too. How else would he survive among a den of thieves?

If a woman hangs out with a lot of cheaters, then you can bet she will cheat on you sooner or later. A friend once told me how all five of his girlfriend's roommates were cheating on their boyfriends and how going to her place to have sex always felt like going to a ***** house because there would
always be guys dropping in. I warned him to keep an eye out for his girlfriend. A month later, he caught her in bed with another guy.

If a man hangs out with a lot of gamblers, you can bet he's not going to stop gambling any time soon. If he hangs out with a lot of potheads then he will start or has been smoking dope. Why else would he hang out with those kids? So they can go play football?

If a woman hangs out with a lot of bimbos, you can bet she's not so smart either.

Friendship is based on common values, similar views and qualities, get it?

By the way, this "test" applies to you as well.

If you are hanging out with the "wrong crowd", think about whether or not your time could be better spent with other people or on more productive activities.

Hang out with the losers enough, and you will end up as a loser too. Don't be surprised if you wake up one day and find out you are exactly like your close friends!

If you can't find out people who share common views then just do your own thing. It's much better to live the way you want to live then submitting into social and peer pressure and doing things you don't enjoy doing.

Parents play a key role in the child's mental and physical development. They are the only role models to the kids until they're in their teens when they start looking at others for validation. That's why doctors check if your parents are alcoholics too see if you might develop those habits. If the person is mature, they will develop into their own person by the time they are adults.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I don't hang out with anyone haha
 

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Potbelly said:
I don't hang out with anyone haha
Well if the choice is between hanging out with losers or yourself. I would choose myself since I have my best interest in mind. Any friend who offers you drugs and need to have it to have "fun" is a negative influence.
 

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So if we are to judge a female by her friends. Then Are we to keep AFC friends or loser friends around?
 

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Tookie said:
So if we are to judge a female by her friends. Then Are we to keep AFC friends or loser friends around?
Unless you want to turn into an AFC or loser. I would cut down on hanging out with them, people usually hang out with people with similar individuals. It's called reference group, they look at each other for improvements. A rotten apple will turn others bad. So I would advise you to cut down on hanging out with the loser friends and start hanging out with people you want to be like.
 

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couldn't it make you stick out as even MORE of a dj?
 

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(JJ) said:
couldn't it make you stick out as even MORE of a dj?
Are you that insecure? That you have to have others who are inferior to look better? You shouldn't be approaching in groups anyways, DJ will approach on his own. Friends should be people that help you improve not someone that brings you down to their level.
 
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