Here's the story in a nutshell. I was seeing this young hottie. She used to text me or call most everyday when things got intimate. I drink a lot and my drunk*ss AFC behavior turned her off so she started acting distant on me and rejected a couple of my invites to take her out. She was acting busy. I cut off contact for a couple weeks hoping my backing off could make her miss me. It worked, she texted me last night to say hi and ask what I was doing. I resonded but my responses were kind of ****y. I wanna know if it's safe to ask her out again or wait till she invites me to go out (which she used to do a lot before)?

Word of advice: Drinking too much turns you into a wussbag. ALL (and there was many of them) of my AFC blunders have come when I was drunk. You'll wake up the next morning with a hangover both from drinking and AFC'ing regretting sh!t.

Good advice on the alcohol bit remote - I should've said that it does help to drink a little but don't overdo it. When I drink in moderation, I feel more relaxed and my confidence gets boosted. However when I'm drunk, I sound like a slurring horn toad with only sex on my mind.

But what do I do with the girl?