“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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how to deal with woman who think u r a player?

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There is this owman i went out with. She works with me from time to time. Last time one of my coworkers during lunch started talking about all the stories how i get the women i want. True stories that i knew help but at the same time it cast me in the wrong shadow of a player.

So today i go out with this woman who listened to teh above story and after a few drinks we go to a club and start dancing. Soon she says that she has to go home. I heard this "I have to go home" before and it means usually "Im too turned on and i wont be responsibe for my acctions so its better if i go home now before slpeeing with you" I play cool and try to stop her from leaving but she does anywa.... SO how do i progress with a woman who assumes you r a player?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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gruby said:
There is this owman i went out with. She works with me from time to time. Last time one of my coworkers during lunch started talking about all the stories how i get the women i want. True stories that i knew help but at the same time it cast me in the wrong shadow of a player.

So today i go out with this woman who listened to teh above story and after a few drinks we go to a club and start dancing. Soon she says that she has to go home. I heard this "I have to go home" before and it means usually "Im too turned on and i wont be responsibe for my acctions so its better if i go home now before slpeeing with you" I play cool and try to stop her from leaving but she does anywa.... SO how do i progress with a woman who assumes you r a player?
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If she thinks you're a player... that's a good thing. Women always want to be the one to convert you to the husband type.
 
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My girlfriend spent a few months trying to decide whether I was a player or a genuine nice guy. I deliberately left her guessing between the two. She lapped it up. Use it to your advantage. Keep her guessing.
 
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gruby said:
There is this owman i went out with. She works with me from time to time. Last time one of my coworkers during lunch started talking about all the stories how i get the women i want. True stories that i knew help but at the same time it cast me in the wrong shadow of a player.

So today i go out with this woman who listened to teh above story and after a few drinks we go to a club and start dancing. Soon she says that she has to go home. I heard this "I have to go home" before and it means usually "Im too turned on and i wont be responsibe for my acctions so its better if i go home now before slpeeing with you" I play cool and try to stop her from leaving but she does anywa.... SO how do i progress with a woman who assumes you r a player?
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For starters, women thinking u r a player is way better than them thinking you r a loser. So u have a great advantage

Keep flirting. Emphasise that u r forced to jump from girl to girl bcos u cant find one 'special enough'. Make her work hard to convince u that she's 'special'
 
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yea being thought of as a player is SUPERB. she doesn't like that your controlling the frame and is trying to reclaim her usual pedestal that men give her.

if she asks if your a player or if you do this to all the girls you've got two options

1) over exaggerate, "yea well i thought talking to you would make it a nice round 40 for today"

2) push pull her, "only the adventurous ones...blah blah...i thought you were perhaps i was wrong...blah blah...if i am this friendship will never work out.
 
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