LJC
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No matter what question you might have now or ask later about the game, no matter what answer you'll receive from those who actually play it, there is always going to be one element that will always play a role in everything you do along the way. It's that one thing that adds your struggles now, but will also eventually give rise to your success in the game later.
That element is your delivery.
As you go about familiarizing yourself with the many concepts here, you'll eventually realize the game is much about communication; verbal, physical, ect. Delivery is all about when and how you do or say the things you do (and even what you don't do). This applies to all women, not just the ones in the night clubs. Even the women who claim to "hate the game" make their decisions by the way men deliver their qualities.
There are no sidelines to stand on. Everyone must play the game. You can't circumvent it. The only difference is whether or not you make it feel like one.
Your eventual proficiency with women will be largely paved with an understanding and an experience with tone and timing, which are the essentials of delivery. Every tip and guideline you'll pick up along the way, every piece of advice, every struggle you'll have from here on out will have it's place within the principles you're about to learn right here, right now.
Tone
Nothing works without it. I can give you everything you need to succeed, but without the proper tone, it's unlikely to work for you. I can just give you, right now, the best line ever devised by the Casanova-kind. I can tell you the best persona to ooze in either a night club or a yacht club. I can tell you how to use your body to communicate. But if you don't have the right tone, everything offered to make you a phenomena on the dating scene will fall flat when you try it.
Tone is the element that convinces people. Confidence, the lack of desperation, ****y & funny, neg hits, body language....all of the many principles you're about to swim neck deep in as you learn how bend the game to your will is going to depend on your ability to convince. If you can't sell it, you can't use it.
To understand just how dynamic a role tone actually plays, take a minute or two to think about how many different ways there are to say the word, "hello". You can say it with enthusiasm or boredom. You can serve it up warm and smooth or cold and bitter. You can deliver it with anxiety or goofiness. You can use tone to tease someone or even dip it in sarcasm. This is why "what" you do or say can so often take a back seat to "how" you do it. The perfect words can be the wrong ones if the tone isn't there to make it effective. Even how you break it off with a woman can have an effect on the outcome of that action.
And so tone is, essentially, the end product of your persona. It is the itch even the best advice has a hard time scratching. It is the "how" of delivery and it will always shine right through everything else. Tone is always determined by the context and mood of the situation. It is entirely up to you to mold this on your own. Help will always be offered, but you're the only one who can fully soak in and judge the context of whatever particular situation you're in at the moment. This is the reason why actually going out and doing the many things you'll learn about is so crucial to your improvement.
Timing
Once again, nothing works without it. Even if your tone is perfect, bad timing can ruin it for you before you even get a chance. Just like tone, timing has the ability to make an action either effective or pathetic. It's that thing that makes comments cliche or meaningful. It can separate desperation from romance. If the timing is right, you can even pull off many things that have failed for you in the past or pull off things you've always been too timid to try. It's a very powerful force.
Timing is the element that makes you unique. All of the many principles you're about to swim neck deep in are going to depend on your ability to time it right. If you try to use principles such as kino, ****y & funny, ect. at the wrong time, you might actually create awkward situations instead of resolving them. Like tone, timing is also typically determined by the feel of a situation, and it is yet another reason why actually going out and doing the many things you'll learn about is so crucial to your improvement.
The Bottom Line
Tone is the element that convinces people. Timing is the element that makes you unique. When a woman is convinced you're unique, her interest level in you will naturally increase. And so delivery is the difference that can make a certain tip work wonders or fail miserably for you. It can earn you gall or get you slapped across the face. It can make you unique and attractive or common and pathetic just the same.
This is where the rules of the game are so often defined. It's all about you. Who you are. How you do it.
If you know this from square one, if you keep it in the back of your mind as you progress, you'll pick up on things just a little faster and you'll fair much better in the long run.
Good luck on your quest.
That element is your delivery.
As you go about familiarizing yourself with the many concepts here, you'll eventually realize the game is much about communication; verbal, physical, ect. Delivery is all about when and how you do or say the things you do (and even what you don't do). This applies to all women, not just the ones in the night clubs. Even the women who claim to "hate the game" make their decisions by the way men deliver their qualities.
There are no sidelines to stand on. Everyone must play the game. You can't circumvent it. The only difference is whether or not you make it feel like one.
Your eventual proficiency with women will be largely paved with an understanding and an experience with tone and timing, which are the essentials of delivery. Every tip and guideline you'll pick up along the way, every piece of advice, every struggle you'll have from here on out will have it's place within the principles you're about to learn right here, right now.
Tone
Nothing works without it. I can give you everything you need to succeed, but without the proper tone, it's unlikely to work for you. I can just give you, right now, the best line ever devised by the Casanova-kind. I can tell you the best persona to ooze in either a night club or a yacht club. I can tell you how to use your body to communicate. But if you don't have the right tone, everything offered to make you a phenomena on the dating scene will fall flat when you try it.
Tone is the element that convinces people. Confidence, the lack of desperation, ****y & funny, neg hits, body language....all of the many principles you're about to swim neck deep in as you learn how bend the game to your will is going to depend on your ability to convince. If you can't sell it, you can't use it.
To understand just how dynamic a role tone actually plays, take a minute or two to think about how many different ways there are to say the word, "hello". You can say it with enthusiasm or boredom. You can serve it up warm and smooth or cold and bitter. You can deliver it with anxiety or goofiness. You can use tone to tease someone or even dip it in sarcasm. This is why "what" you do or say can so often take a back seat to "how" you do it. The perfect words can be the wrong ones if the tone isn't there to make it effective. Even how you break it off with a woman can have an effect on the outcome of that action.
And so tone is, essentially, the end product of your persona. It is the itch even the best advice has a hard time scratching. It is the "how" of delivery and it will always shine right through everything else. Tone is always determined by the context and mood of the situation. It is entirely up to you to mold this on your own. Help will always be offered, but you're the only one who can fully soak in and judge the context of whatever particular situation you're in at the moment. This is the reason why actually going out and doing the many things you'll learn about is so crucial to your improvement.
Timing
Once again, nothing works without it. Even if your tone is perfect, bad timing can ruin it for you before you even get a chance. Just like tone, timing has the ability to make an action either effective or pathetic. It's that thing that makes comments cliche or meaningful. It can separate desperation from romance. If the timing is right, you can even pull off many things that have failed for you in the past or pull off things you've always been too timid to try. It's a very powerful force.
Timing is the element that makes you unique. All of the many principles you're about to swim neck deep in are going to depend on your ability to time it right. If you try to use principles such as kino, ****y & funny, ect. at the wrong time, you might actually create awkward situations instead of resolving them. Like tone, timing is also typically determined by the feel of a situation, and it is yet another reason why actually going out and doing the many things you'll learn about is so crucial to your improvement.
The Bottom Line
Tone is the element that convinces people. Timing is the element that makes you unique. When a woman is convinced you're unique, her interest level in you will naturally increase. And so delivery is the difference that can make a certain tip work wonders or fail miserably for you. It can earn you gall or get you slapped across the face. It can make you unique and attractive or common and pathetic just the same.
This is where the rules of the game are so often defined. It's all about you. Who you are. How you do it.
If you know this from square one, if you keep it in the back of your mind as you progress, you'll pick up on things just a little faster and you'll fair much better in the long run.
Good luck on your quest.