Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Link:Myth: Men sleep around more than women do
Tracey: The real truth is, this one is probably true — but by much less so than you think. Men overestimate, women underestimate. Men consistently report having three times more sex than women do. If that's true there's an awfully busy woman out there! A recent study found women only tend to remember significant lovers, who were part of relationships, forgetting (somewhat conveniently) one-night-stands or holiday flings. The real total of how many men women have really slept with, this researcher suggested, was about three times more than women say or think. Which works out, funnily enough, to make both sexes dead even.
It's also totally dependent on how attractive the people in question are. A good-looking, sexually liberated woman is likely to have had more partners than a not-so-fab looking guy around the same age, for instance. It's called opportunity.
The difference is that while some women probably are sexing a lot of men, women don't generally have sex with guys who aren't at a high level. Whereas a guy that gets hot girls will still sex girls all the way down to average abd even ocassionally below average. Women are putting a limit on how much guys can have sex, with the result of every woman gets a fair share of sex with a guy higher than her to fulfill men being at higher supply/lower demand.LJC said:I'm more inclined to believe that, just as a small % of guys are sexing a large % of women, there is also a small % of women sexing a large % of guys.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Yes, the article is BS. About 10% of men are sexing 60% of the women, that rings true with what I see because every guy I know barring the odd one is single and horny whereas the decent women have a ton of options and are always getting laid and usually have a bf anyway.DonGorgon said:There are less women than men though males and females are equally horny men com across more desperate cause it is harder for them to find sex due to the lack of females.. Women end up sleeping around "more than men" cause they have so many options being thrown at them all the time vs. men who have to work hard to get what ever they can.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
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If you think that the average 19 year old girl is as horny as the average 19, 29, 39, 49, or 59 year old guy than you have no understanding of girls. Sorry to burst your feminist bubble, but females don't get as turned on as you. Most don't even get that much pleasure from sex. What they are looking for is different than what the average guy is looking for. Most girls end up having sex for reasons that have nothing to do with the physical.DonGorgon said:There are less women than men though males and females are equally horny men com across more desperate cause it is harder for them to find sex due to the lack of females.. Women end up sleeping around "more than men" cause they have so many options being thrown at them all the time vs. men who have to work hard to get what ever they can.