hey new guy here, been lurking for a while now. Im pretty good with approaches and getting numbers and what not but lately ive been having a problem. my problem is i cant seem to pace a "relationship" right. Im not looking for a 1 night stand, but im not looking for a LTR either so i cant decide how quick to do things. Im at a toss up between being aggressive and going for sex on a first date and hoping she becomes interested after, or establishing a rapport before dating, then mabye only kissing on the first date and doing more the next date. Im doing each one half assed and neither seem to give results. Which do you think would yeild better results for me? or is there a combo anyone recommends
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