“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Got a date with a 24 yr old!

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I've got a date with a 24 yr old tomorrow night and was wondering if you guys think I'm treading where I shouldn't be?

I met her at a party last weekend through a mutual female friend who is 40. I was with a 28 yr old hottie I used to go out with 2 yrs back so i couldn't really talk to her. The next week I run into our mutual friend and she tells me this girl want her to give me her phone number. So i called her up and asked if she wanted to do lunch and she said she doesn't have long lunch breaks but wants to know if I wanna meet her Tuesday night for some drinks!

For one do you guys think she is too young? I say fvck it I'm gonna do what makes me happy and not worry about what other people think. For one I have girls constantly telling me I look early 30's so I guess I'm aged well. haha!

Secondly I'm trying to figure out what the hell we're going to talk about! She's a nurse and fairly mature for her age.

Oh and she just recently broke up with her boyfriend...

What do u guys think?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Heh, heh as long as she's legal and willing I say go for it man.

You only live once!
 
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Don't think twice. This is A-OK.

Have fun.
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Absolutely NOT.

This girl is WAY too young for you. What are you thinking? Cradle robbers should be hanged along with the hors and homos!!!!!! (< LMS is rubbing off on me, yikes)
 
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Go for it dude she is single and who cares what people say. Anything legal is game. I really feel that men should date girls at least 6 years younger because woman age faster.

Good luck to you and let us know how it goes.
 
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PTC said:
Oh and she just recently broke up with her boyfriend...
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Her age is NO problem, PTC.
THis is the only problem here -
If you get with this babe , you are going to be 'rebound guy'.
Women who are recently broken up, look for a guy to help them repair their ego. They want validation of their attactiveness and confirmation of their market value.
IF you date her, that will be your 'mission' as fas as she is concerned, but she won't say this because she is unaware of her own motives.
I know that this sounds cynical but that is what women do, so by all means get with her BUT do it with your eyes open and your heart GUARDED.
DO not believe what this woman says about what she wants.. she wants YOU to validate her attractivenees An older guy is perfect for this. She will get a greater
ego-gasm from being with you that she would by dating some 25 year old bozo with tattoos and a rusty Harley and no job..
Remember this -
Women open their mouth and words fall out -just meaningless noise.

Trust me on this one PTC.

Good luck and good hunting
 
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"Rebound guy" role is A-OK, too. "No expectations," and all that.

Don't sweat it. Have fun and enjoy her.

It's not like you wanna MARRY her.
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Yeah follow what Jophil said PTC and have fun but drop her at the first sign of disrespect.

After all that you've been through its the only way to do things.
 
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Young girls like that are appreciating assets. By the time you join the AARP, she will still be got and you will be the envy of all your friends with shriveled up prune bags on their arms.
 
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....and you will be the envy of all your friends with shriveled up prune bags on their arms.
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Ha ha ha ha !!
IT boggles my mind sometimes when I see or hear one of those "shrivelled up prune bags" still acting like she is the prize and SHE is entitled to this and that and the other thing. I guess women just ignore the laws of supply and demand and create REALITY in their heads.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Dont worry I'm not lookin to marry her!! Just maybe to have a little fun,...u only live once!! :)

I'll give an update after the date!
 
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PTC said:
Dont worry I'm not lookin to marry her!! Just maybe to have a little fun,...u only live once!! :)
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That's exactly the attitude to have. Don't go into it with crazy expectations. Just go have fun!

Also don't worry about if you are too old for her. If it's an issue for her then let her do the worrying. Thinking for other people is pointless.
 
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"I've got a "date".

I'm amazed some of you still use the word.

Same thing with some of the advice on here such as "Go get a cup of coffee with her". C'mon bros, you're not socially that inept. These terms and ideas might've been cool in 1950, but they've been played out rigorously...time for new/original ones. Sometimes I really think it's gotta be a joke.

I've replaced "I have a date" with ---> "I'm hanging out with some chick."

I've replaced "Go get a cup of coffee with her" with ---> "Go to a bar/club with her."
 
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Well the "date/hangout(edger)" went pretty good last night. Took her to a cool restaurant and sat in the bar and had dinner. She was kinda quiet at first and I did most of the talking but after she finished her martini she really opened up! I had only seen her once so I kinda forgot what she looked like but sh!t she was a cuttie!!! She didnt seem to care about the age difference either.

She had to be at work this morning at 6:30 so we called it a night around 10 but she sent me a text when she got home and said she had a great time and she enjoyed talkin to me...so far this i dont see any cracks in this "plate"
Her bday is this weekend and she invited me to her party sat night so we'll see...

oh and she doesn't have a myspace lol!!! green flag!!
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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MacAvoy said:
Whatever you do, don't go to her bday party.
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Well I have two other parties to go to so I probably wasn't but why should i not go?
 
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MacAvoy said:
Whatever you do, don't go to her bday party.
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I agree, if you do go, just be prepared to meet all her friends, who may be immature even though she's not. Then her friends will judge you through a microscope, and report their "findings" to her.

Then there's the present thing, you would have to get her a present of some sort. The present will then be micro analyzed (along with you) to see if there's some sort of deeper significance to why you chose to get her what you did.

Your goal with her should be alone time. Time for you to score points with her first.
 
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First off to be a success with her, your going to have to compete with 20 other people for her attention all who will be focussing on her. Secondly for you to come across as having a good time, you'll have to gain social proof which would involve other women which is something you may want to avoid.
 
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One thing is that it's going to be at a local bar(i live in a small town) so there will be other people in there as well and we usually end up going there anyhow. But i probably wont make it. I just dont want her to think that i'm a d!ck for not showin up.
 
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Then simply tell her you've got other plans but that you would like have your own bday celebration the next night.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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