Weakness – The virus that destroys DJ's


That's right. Never, ever show a hint of weakness infront of a girl! I learned that the hard way. Because no matter how cool, confident, and ****y you and she thought you were. When that moment of weakness happens, none of that matters, she'll see that you're not in the least different from every other guy. Even if you are the exact opposite of them, she'll see it as if you were Average Joe.

This happened to me when I was 13... I'm 17 now btw. Anyways, I just got familiar with the DJ way of life then. Anyways, this woman, let's call her Jackie, was 22. And pure sexuality in my eyes. And I just started obeying the DJ principles. I can proudly say that I attracted her, she was SO into me, if I hadn't been so imature then, I prolly would've lost my virginity to her then. She even offered to be my ''private tutor'' when I reached 16. I was in 7th heaven. But, all good things come an end once. I can remember the day, Monday. I woke up pretty early, I had to go to school but I chose to skip it.

Bad move. Naturally, she was the only thing I could think about. So I sent her an SMS.
I wrote all my problems into one message.

First sign of weakness. Not being able to handle your problems yourself.

The next time I saw her, I already noticed that the way she acted towards me had changed. But since I was a coward that couldn't handle the truth back then, I ignored it.

Bad move.

Second sign of weakness. Twisting reality into what makes you feel better instead of facing the cold harsh truth.

So my little displays of weakness continued until one day I screwed up big time at school, beat up a teacher and needed to hide from my dad. I asked her and she said yes.

That night I tried a final bravado and Neg-hit her a few times. I would've tried Kino if her best male friend wasn't there. Well anyway, he left, and she clearly ignored me.

I was naturally dissapointed, I left the DJ road for about two months, then I met her again. She was still the same, but she didn't give a rats ass about me.

Then I realized, It was all my fault, but I also realized that everything good that happened, happened due to my actions. Then, if I could get a 22 year old woman to want to fcuk me, why couldn't I do the same to girls my age?

I improved a lot since then, but I'll always remember my rule.

Never, EVER show a sign of weakness.

Yeah really good post.

"Second sign of weakness. Twisting reality into what makes you feel better instead of facing the cold harsh truth."

A lot of people come here criticizing this forum for always being like this, forcing new posters to face harsh cold reality instead of being coddled but its the way its gotta be or this place will gradually become no better than loveshack.org. *shudders*

Anyway very true lesson you learned man.

I want a surgery that would remove the part of my brain that gives you fear.

My biggest wish is that I would never feel fear again. Ignorance is bliss? Hell yes it is.

You can show weakness, you aint always gotta be macho man. Dont be no *****, but if you got a weakness a real women that cares about you gon try n help make it your strentgh.

Jon55 said:

I want a surgery that would remove the part of my brain that gives you fear.

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Those people without fear are called "idiots." You know, the kind of guys that start crap with you in a bar for no apparent reason? Or rudely hit on every girl at a party and generally make an ass of themselves? Also the kind who invade sovereign countries without an exit strategy and can't take any criticism, constructive or otherwise.

Fear is a healthy part of being a human. Bravery is not the absence of fear, it's the overcoming of fear for a worthy end result.

Apply the principles of Alcoholic's Anonymous. It helped me be a better, HONEST person. Not only that- I like myself much better now.When you can overcome the procrastination, fear, denial and fix everything that is absolutely wrong with you....life becomes better. Even women see it. AA not only helped me overcome my demons- but also made me more aware of the fact NOBODY is responsible for my happiness.....but myself. I finally stopped being a whiney-ass little biatch, and finally grew up. Check it out, guys....

PS: I am IN NO WAY RELIGIOUS!!! A "higher power" can be anything, anyone....you just need to respect whatever it is. Overinflated EGOS often mask weakness. Know the difference.....

Bunk 040 said:

You can show weakness, you aint always gotta be macho man. Dont be no *****, but if you got a weakness a real women that cares about you gon try n help make it your strentgh.

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You got it all wrong mate, I didn't think of weakness as in actual weakness, weakness as in being needy and not being able to face anything. Every man has his faults, so does every women, just try and make sure that none of them is being Emotionally Weak.

MBO said:

You got it all wrong mate, I didn't think of weakness as in actual weakness, weakness as in being needy and not being able to face anything. Every man has his faults, so does every women, just try and make sure that none of them is being Emotionally Weak.

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Okay, I got you.

wait, you beat up your teacher?

Right on point.

Bunk 040 said:

Okay, I got you.

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I very much doubt that, I don't even know what the fudge I said

beastmaster79 said:

wait, you beat up your teacher?

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Yeah mate, the bastard insulted me mother, and we Croatians don't take that very lightly.

Good post.

Keep in mind of the extreme, this doesn't mean that not showing a weakness isn't acceptable. Everyone have faults, and no one can be perfect (perfect is boring too).

This isn't a post about weakness... this is why are you spilling your guts to her? One thing to leak out, another to lay it out.

Though the facing the facts point is true.

Weakness is the only word that came to my mind when I wrote that mate, I'll revise it later, when I've got some time on me hands.

If she ditches you the moment you show one tiny little bit of weakness, she isn't worth it. You can't be macho 100% of the time in a LTR. So, a girl is always going to ditch you if your mum dies and you break down?

Imagine if you eventually get married. Can you put on a macho act for a lifetime? No one is perfect. No one can do that forever.

So you were 13 when this first happened? And she was 22? Hardly a normal scenario.

Jon55 said:

I want a surgery that would remove the part of my brain that gives you fear.

My biggest wish is that I would never feel fear again. Ignorance is bliss? Hell yes it is.

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Psychopaths have no fear.