GURU is back with yet another post.

"Here I am in my mid-twenties. I have it all. Youth, Wealth, freedom, status, abundance of quality women. Why am i not happy? After all I have everything. I just don't get it. What am I missing? This doesn't make any sense. I can snap my finger, and POOF! Why? O I get it! I need more wealth and status! That will make me happy. But wait, why am I not happy now? ; I am way ahead of the game."

The only thing GURU understood was he had everything materially. He was a GREAT CATCH. Great on paper. But inside, he was distraught. He was far from complete. GURU had committed a major crime of MANHOOD , the mistake of many, he compromised his integrity; The essense of MAN.

What GURU never realized was, when he dies, he takes nothing with him except that of which he commited a major crime against. WOW!

But what is integrity?

Candor, forthrightness, goodness, honestness, honesty, honorableness, incorruptibility, incorruption, principle, probity, purity, rectitude, righteousness, sincerity, straightforwardness, uprightness, virtue,
absoluteness, coherence, cohesion, entireness, perfection, purity, simplicity, soundness, stability, totality, unity, wholeness
Antonyms: division

So many definitions but yet only one antonym. Does that mean I can be a man of integrity but if I compromise myself once, I am DIVIDED? Hmm, that doesnt make alot of sense. Does it?

These are too many things to be, I am sure to mess up. Ok , Let me simplify it. Integrity is action that does not take away my value as a MAN. Ok much easier to deal with that definition. WHEW! But wait if I mess up once, am i DIVIDED? This is not easy as I thought.

(7 Years LATER)

"Wow, my life is very different. I don't look as good on paper. But for some reason I feel good. I am happy. I feel STRONG. I am PROUD. What am i proud of? After all, I should be so far ahead than the present. "I HAVE VALUE."

THOU SHALL CALL A GIRL ONLY ONCE UNTIL A CALL IS RECEIVED
THOU SHALL BE TRUE TO HIS WORD
THOU SHALL ACCEPT RESPONSIBILITY AND NOT POINT FINGERS
THOU SHALL ACCEPT FAILURE AS A WAY NOT TO DO THINGS AND TRY AGAIN
THOU SHALL NEVER SCREW
THOU SHALL NOT SEX HO*RS AS THAT TAKES AWAY VALUE
THOU SHALL DO THE TIME FOR THE CRIME
THOU SHALL MAKE A DECISION AND FOLLOW THROUGH
THOU SHALL NEVER REHASH OLD RELATIONSHIPS
THOU SHALL LISTEN BEFORE THOU SPEAKS
THOU SHALL DEMAND THE UTMOST RESPECT
THOU SHALL NOT SHOW WEAKNESS TO OTHERS

THOU SHALL NOT COMPROMISE INTEGRITY.

Dude.

Someone mentions "integrity" around here and they're told to "go away"...by exactly one person? And everyone else is as quiet as a torched crack house?

Here it is. Great women want a man of high character. Figure that out and you don't need routines or gimmicks anymore. It is natural masculine nature to make solid decisions and do what you say you are going to do...and women love men like that for it because they get that all-elusive COMFORT level around them. Then your sex life goes to the next level.

Really. Don't dismiss it until you've tried it.

Not much of a fun conversation? Are we talking about how to get better with women or are we just entertaining each other?

Scot McKay said:

Dude.

Here it is. Great women want a man of high character. Figure that out and you don't need routines or gimmicks anymore.

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BINGO!