I often think this but i'm wondering if any of you do also...

guys so often seem to make women the end all and be all of life. but honestly, i really don't see what the big deal is.

yes, i enjoy some women. i might enjoy their company, i might enjoy their body, etc.

but at the end of the day, i still don't see what the big deal is. i mean, they are fun, but its not like they create absolute bliss or anything.

i honestly think the obsession (and i would classify it as an obsession) that men have today with women in general is a function of the endless marketing and hollywood movies that have trained them to be obsessed with women.

kind of like pavlonian dogs.... pant pant pant boobies pant pant pant....

sure men have always been horny and attracted to women, but look at various tribes... its not like the men are sitting around all day looking at the boobs of the women in their tribes.

they get horny, they bang them, they go back to cutting down trees or making blow darts or whatever.

anyway, i fail to see why men are as obsessed with women as they are. i mean, you hear guys talk about how they would die to f*ck jessica alba. do they really think it would be that great? do they think she has a golden p*ssy or something? i got news for you guys, it wouldn't feel any different banging jessica alba than it would banging any other hot chic out there.

maybe im just getting old, but half the time after i've finished banging some chic i often think 'why is this such a big deal to everyone?"

joekerr31 said:

maybe im just getting old, but half the time after i've finished banging some chic i often think 'why is this such a big deal to everyone?"

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Well Joekerr, you just haven't met the right woman yet. Don't worry..she's out there. You'll meet her someday!

Just kidding...

Someone had to say that.

It does seem like p*ssy is a huge deal to most guys these days. I think a lot of it is ego. With most guys having boring lives, working desk jobs, watching tv, video games..there's really not that much of a "manly" life going on.

So..banging chicks fills that gap maybe? Think back in the days when man had to go out and kill something to eat, for the family...or the guy that had to fight other guys to the death in some gladiator arena. I doubt getting laid was on their mind 24-7.

Just a thought.

I think it also has something to do with the lengths we seem to have to go to to get some p*ssy. This is what irritates me about women. It's not enough that you provide resources, affection and have the ambition to do so, you also have to "entertain" them like some circus clown.

Maybe it's the competition with other men that drives us to do the things we do to get laid. If you aren't giving a particular woman what she wants, these days she's got so many options she'll just swing to another branch. There's no incentive for them to carry their own weight.

All my friends who are married do things for their wives as if they're now the head of household........and it isn't because they deserve it, it's because the guys feel if they don't do it, it will create a barrier between them and the p*ssy. They didn't get married to create families and grow old with their partners, they did it in the belief that they could secure regular, easy access to p*ssy.

It's all about women having the upperhand (men allowing this) and manipulating the average guy by rationing out the p*ssy. I swear this sexual drive can almost be a curse.

Attaining women is about status and ego. When you bang a 5, do you feel like you accomplished something? When you bang a 10, how do you feel then?
How do you feel when a 10 is your gf or wife, and people know that. How do you feel when you marry or date a 5, and the next Joe walks in with a 10? How do you feel when you are driving a Honda, and a Bentley pulls up to the light? It's all about ego friends. And the bigger the ego, the less satisfied you are and the bigger status you try to attain.

guru1000 said:

Attaining women is about status and ego. When you bang a 5, do you feel like you accomplished something? When you bang a 10, how do you feel then?
How do you feel when a 10 is your gf or wife, and people know that. How do you feel when you marry or date a 5, and the next Joe walks in with a 10? How do you feel when you are driving a Honda, and a Bentley pulls up to the light? It's all about ego friends. And the bigger the ego, the less satisfied you are and the bigger status you try to attain.

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That's the problem, people always spend so much time, money and effort investing in their massive egos. Pvssy is pvssy, is it not? Does not a HB5 feel the same as a HB10 if your eyes are closed?

For guys that like being bachelors, women are just a sexual release. You don't need one to 'fulfill' your life, or 'make you complete'.

Hell, if I had loads of money, I'd probably invest in one of these:

http://www.realdoll.com/

Probably just as good (maybe better) than the real thing, without strings and hazards being attached.

Ego is a funny thing. Why is it a guy like Donald Trump always need to marry a 10? Image! There are some of us who want to the best in life. I personally have a very competitive nature. If the guy next to me has lives in a million dollar home , I want a 1.5. But that is the type of industry I was groomed in and where i formed my mentality. There are some of us that are very happy living moderately. And the best to them, they are happy. Personally I always wanted to strive to be the best. And if someone is better, that gives me more motivation to strive harder with different approaches.

Now back to the women. I know tons of guys that are good looking and very successful and are happily married to 5's. I also know guys that are not successful or good looking and are with 9's. My nature, which is of course, to be the best will need a 9-10 just to fulfill my own mentality of status (ego). Do i make it hard on myself? Absolutely.

Ask yourself this. When you shop for clothes? What do you buy? Italian Made or Wool Suits? What kind of car do you drive? What kind of house do you live in? What kind of watch do you wear? This will ultimately tell you in terms of(1-10), what kind of woman you will settle with. This is EGO. IS ego a healthy thing, that's the question?