I never had a problem with her or anything and she recently dumped me out of absolutly nowhere. I was fine at first, but now as I try to get over her, and I usually do it by thinking of flaw of her, I cant. I seriouslly cant think of one bad thing about her, if I was going to make the perfect girl it would be her. Now my goal isn't to get back with her, I want to move on b/c I have about 4 girls in line right now, but nobody seems to compare to her. Is this very AFC coming from me, idk what to do to get over her.:crazy:

Did her behaviour towards you change for the better or the worse before the breakup?

Also do you know if she's already with some other guy?

It has been said that often when a woman breaks up with a guy she was thinking about it months in advance and the relationship was technically over all those months ago when she started thinking about breaking it off.

Some do this with decency by simply falling out of love and breaking up or they be scum and go branch swinging first and make sure they've hooked a new guy before taking their claws out of you.

If you can find out she was looking to trade you up and finally hooked a man she was seeing behind your back it should be easier for you to get over her.

If thats not the case its a tough break for sure and only plate spinning is the answer my friend.

She may be with another guy by now, she easily could be, alot of guys do persue her so i'm guessing yes. After the breakup she stopped talking to me, well kinda the other way around rly I didn'y reply to her, now it's been a few weeks i think or that's what it feels like. I don't feel the urge to persue anymore women, I kinda want to just hang out with her, but I dont at the same time, and I keep telling myself theres no way she could be the one b/c the chances are so low it will probably never happen, but it feels like she is, and my friends definatly arnt helping they just bring it up constantly, one of my friends tells me to get over her and he does help put things into perspective, another talks to her as of today, he just randomly started talking to her about me which is pissing me off, and the rest just say i'm retarded for getting dumped which imo dosen't make any sense.

I had friends that acted like that during some of my bad times and breakups.

They are no longer my friends because I nexted them.

I hope you do the same.

Remember your friends are wrong because you can't control another person's actions, you can't keep some b!tch from breaking up with you, you can only control yourself and your own actions.

Also that one friend absolutely should not be talking about you to her considering the pain of your breakup. That is a massive sign of disrespect from your friend to you.

I'm honestly shocked by how many guys I've read about here who tolerate bad friends.

It almost seems like the world has changed for the worse and thats all people have to choose from as friends or else you would think they would choose better.

i had a similar experience with a girl who i liked very much
all of a sudden she broke up with me before summer saying she would rather be friends which hurt but i moved on and got with 3 other girls before summer ended, then when school started i heard from her friends she was crazy for me again and wanted me back, im guessing because she heard about those other girls. now even though i still very much like her im holding her off and still with another girl, seeing how long shes willing to wait for me
so my advice is to move on wth those other girls even if your not in love with them
act like your life is great and she may come crawling back to you, if not at least you will of moved on
get her to be jelious and use it against her