I feel like I have been chasing my tail over the past few months. I don't know not what I really want I think I do but again I don't know. I wanted the player type of rep so I got with ALOT of women. It's fun don't get me wrong but I think I might want a realtionship. Since joining this site my personality has changed and I have to flirt with almost every girl I come in contact. I can't really stop and I don't think I want to. But I have friends and family members who always have girlfriends and they seem happy. I think I want that but I don't really date before I came here I was shy so when I did start hooking up with women after sex I did not persue them. I like seducing women and being a player it's fun but at the end of the day I feel like I am chasing my tail?

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-Roman W

I will trade you.... you give me your seduction skills and you can have my "friend" skills!

thats where I think this place has a junk yard mentality sometimes..seduction shouldnt always be about getting laid..its about getting the girl you want and keeping her.

If the only reason you came here is to learn how to bag as many chicks in a lifetime, you have lost track from the good guy..to the a$$hole jerk that many women leave anyway..

Go after a girl you like..and get into a relationship..just dont come off like you are looking for a relationship.

In the online book "The Art of Seduction" the author wrote one sentence that makes absolute sense to me, and described me quite well. It goes something along the lines of "having STRs is just a way of passing time until you meet a great girl to have a LTR with". This is one of the unfortunate realities with the whole dating scene. You have to date a lot of 5hit to finally reach a decent woman.

I've been wanting a LTR for a while, and it seemed like I was chasing my own tail for a while. However it looks good that I'm entering a LTR, and this girl is absolutely wonderful. Don't settle for something you're not happy with if your looking for a LTR. You just have to keep searching and not give up (which can be very difficult at times).

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"Feelin' sleazy dirty,
Feelin' kinda mean,
Feelin' up, down & in-between,
Feelin' kinda ****y
Feel I'm on the rise,
Feel myself a-coming between your thighs" - Jackyl

Bungo Ponys words of a year ago make a hell of a lot of sense.

Thanks BP!