I F'd up and know better as I usually don't have this problem but this girl was a unique challenge. I met her at bar (she bartended) there, she saw me 4-5 times in 2 weeks, then got flaky with communication. She has got a serious edge which turned me on and yet was definitely the type not out to F around, even mentioned how she thought about some dating service, she did drop a few digs on me about being the "typical" guy.
Anyways she ended up coming over my place at 2:30AM after she got out of work a couple weeks ago, watched a movie then gave me on of the best bjs i ever had, she stayed till 10am the next morn doing the completely afffectionate thing. Sent me a text the next day about how good of a night she had. So everything is good, so i ask her when I can see her and she says that she may not be working Sunday, cool i ask to her to let me know. The weekend rolls around nothing, see her at work, nothing, sunday i send her a txt asking her about that night, nothing.
My big mistake was getting frustrated, and sending a needy sounding text which she responded with "I think its just our schedules are different" then she sent another right after "Its only been a week", i responded the next day but never got any response at all from her. I see her at work as she works our favorite hang out, and she does not like me lol, i went from that night at my place to a leper in one week without even seeing her again. Trying to come up with the best angle to getting her back in the loop, any suggestions? Was going to send a txt just asking if she wanted to get coffee or lunch..

LOL, talk about your weird situations.

She's bobbin on your knob one day then a few days later you are the elephant man.

The only thing I can figure is your "taste" wasn't to her liking lmao.

LOL shes seemed to and she did the follow up, maybe it is the awkwardness of seeing her at the bar and my being a *****. I'd really like to get her back in the loop though..

drf408 said:

... gave me one of the best bjs i ever had, she stayed till 10am the next morn doing the completely afffectionate thing.

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Hahaha, that is some funny shyt - a hor being affectionate? There is NO such thing - this is a oxymoron!!!!!!!

You are chasing a hor as if you want to be in a relationship - wrong approach! She is not a woman - she has a different mindset kid.

Last Man could be onto something here.

She could've just been so horny she wanted to do something naughty then go home and get herself off to the thought of it and then never get together with you again so as to alleviate her guilt over the act.

Oh well even though it looks like you were used in this situation at least it was the good type of being used lol.

Very true, and that may be it but she took long enough to do it! I know shes a freak and wanted to get the whole ride too Honestly I think guilt has something to do with and i dont think she had the best impression of me, she came acorss as jaded and distrustful right off the bat,

You are OUT! Move on...

Read the bible!