“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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"Did you just touch my ass?"

Heretic

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I was getting lunch, and I noticed one the girls that I've had an eye on right behind me, so I stole a move from David D. and backed up a little into her, and looked back and said "did you just touch my ass"?

She was bewildered, but quickly said "my hands are up here!" and showed me her hands.

This was last week.

Today [Monday 9/17/07] in gym (We have class together now, today was my first day in her class) I brought it up and she said "It's not my fault you're imagining things". I didn't know how to reply to this so I just smiled.

If she says "It's not my fault you're imagining things" again, what would be a good reply to that?

Also, since I'm here, can someone recommend a few interesting things I should do or say to her to build up more attraction? There's alot of competition in gym, all the guys already tease and mess with her, I want to be a little different. We usually play volleyball or basketball. Sometimes they play something where you have the option of sitting out on the bleachers, and sometimes she sits near me.

She's a cheerleader. I believe she's taken by a football player, but I'm not sure. I saw them holding hands earlier, and a day before I saw that I heard a bunch of guys tease her about some guy not making a move on her or something. Maybe it's the same guy.

Good thing to know is that she's not the only one I'm interested in, but she's the biggest challenge.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Well I will take extra care to remember everything that happens tomorrow and post it on here for your evaluation.

I think a good start would be by asking her for her name, and then doing this tip on her. See where that takes me.
 

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god damnit. i hate people who have to use other people's lines, but aren't witty enough to finish it themselves.

canned lines are crap if you aren't smart enough to carry on your own conversation.

i bet after people on this site use their clever canned opener... it goes dead silent with crickets in the background... talk about awkward.
 

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Michele said:
god damnit. i hate people who have to use other people's lines, but aren't witty enough to finish it themselves.

canned lines are crap if you aren't smart enough to carry on your own conversation.

i bet after people on this site use their clever canned opener... it goes dead silent with crickets in the background... talk about awkward.
It's a crutch, and I'm still at the level where I need them until I can walk on my own, know what I mean?
 

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Hey openers are good but really focus on the tone you present it in and your eye contact thats more than half of it, that is bound to make her laugh if it doesnt sound canned and you keep your presence, and hey, you dont have to always out-wit the girl...
 

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"Me? imagining things? Ok Miss 'I dream about heretic everynight'"

finish it off with a beaming smile to make sure she knows you're kidding.
 

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Potbelly said:
"Me? imagining things? Ok Miss 'I dream about heretic everynight'"

finish it off with a beaming smile to make sure she knows you're kidding.
That's what I'm looking for. Thanks.

I'll post an update when I get back from school.
 

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btw. stop bringing up the topic of her touching your ass. She's going to get annoyed of it really, really fast.
 

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Heretic said:
If she says "It's not my fault you're imagining things" again, what would be a good reply to that?
"I love hearing the same thing over and over again you fvckin repeatin sh!t"...

umm Why would she say that again? lol... She won't ever have to say that again, because you're not gonna bring up the ass thing anymore got it? good.

stop going the whole ass touching route and start chatting her up. And chat up some of her friends too... and then chat up 30 other female classmates and a few cool guys. then chat up some girls in the hall... chat up a really hot chick and then break off from her to go make friends with a nerd that gets picked on... you're in high school, one day you will realize what an EASY opportunity you're sitting on.

but anyhow I would've said something like...

"My imagination is dirtier than that" ...or... "Actually it was you're fault that I was imagining things... You seem like a mischievous girl, you were probably putting me under some sort of mind control spell...Oh great i'm imagining more stuff, get out of my head!" ... I could easily keep playing with her like that, after finding out her name and then chatting a bit I would say something like "This is weird I want to keep finding out more about you... Are you doing more mind control on me?" :cool:
I don't know, just be creative and have fun. But let her know you are mature in between your witty outbursts.
 
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