Hey guys. So I've got this girl I've been seeing for almost half a year now. Anyways, every saturday night we hang out together. The thing is, she always seems to want to go to the club. Granted, she wants to go with me, but still. It seems like that's her only idea of fun.
I used to go clubbing a lot when I was younger and I think she did too, but now that I'm in my mid-20's I would rather do something else on my nights. Especially now that I'm with someone, I was hoping I wouldn't have to spend time in nightclubs anymore. Like the only reason I used to go was to pick up chicks, but now that I'm with one, why would i want to go? She is 24 if that makes any difference.
Is it just me or is going to a club with a girlfriend a bad idea? I mean all night she's saying hi to all of her guy friends.
Another thing that I noticed is that if your girl is attractive, you're getting tested by other guys(who have liquid courage) all night long. It's almost like I feel like I'm getting ready to go into war every time I enter the club with her.
Another big problem for me is seeing girls that I know, who also happen to like me. Then when they see my girl they start trying to either mess with her head, or just sabotage our night in general.
In short, I honestly don't want to go clubbing with her, but whenever it's the weekend that seems like all she wants to do. Then I feel pressured to take her. I also feel like whatever other plans I make that night are going to disappoint her and that she'll be sulking all night because she'd rather be in the club.
I know she used to be a bit of a party girl, but she seems mostly settled down now to me, except that things like this make me think twice about her.
I used to go clubbing a lot when I was younger and I think she did too, but now that I'm in my mid-20's I would rather do something else on my nights. Especially now that I'm with someone, I was hoping I wouldn't have to spend time in nightclubs anymore. Like the only reason I used to go was to pick up chicks, but now that I'm with one, why would i want to go? She is 24 if that makes any difference.
Is it just me or is going to a club with a girlfriend a bad idea? I mean all night she's saying hi to all of her guy friends.
Another thing that I noticed is that if your girl is attractive, you're getting tested by other guys(who have liquid courage) all night long. It's almost like I feel like I'm getting ready to go into war every time I enter the club with her.
Another big problem for me is seeing girls that I know, who also happen to like me. Then when they see my girl they start trying to either mess with her head, or just sabotage our night in general.
In short, I honestly don't want to go clubbing with her, but whenever it's the weekend that seems like all she wants to do. Then I feel pressured to take her. I also feel like whatever other plans I make that night are going to disappoint her and that she'll be sulking all night because she'd rather be in the club.
I know she used to be a bit of a party girl, but she seems mostly settled down now to me, except that things like this make me think twice about her.
