25,000+ approaches - And I want to thank everyone at this board! Some of you are really amazing!
This post ended up a little bit long - But... hopefully I'll be the last thing you ever read at this board, so take your time!
AND PLEASE… Take your time to read this – it will hopefully open your eyes to what you’re doing and where you are in your life at this moment!
If you're new to this board or even been around for a while it's very important that you read this - It changed my way of looking at everything, and also my way of living.
And, i'm 99% sure that everyone who's reaching their goals in life would agree with me.
Here's the facts;
THIS BOARD HAS CHANGED MY LIFE! (No matter how pathetic it might sound).
I joined this board 2.5 years ago. (Join Date: 11-16-2004). I can't really remember why, but I would guess that I was a little bit depressed at this time in my life. Anyway:
Two and a half years later, I’m looking back at myself, and I don’t know if I should be crying or laughing, but the last one is probably the one that I prefer.
This is me, described, 3 years ago:
- A young confused guy without any desires or wishes from his life or himself.
- No self-esteem and no confidence at all.
- No financial structure
- Virgin, no experience at all when it comes to women.
- No job, and no plans to get one either
- A screwed up mindset about life
Here’s the thing;
After I registered at this board I started to change myself. And, I hope you guys understand that it’s not about hanging around here making posts to all the other guys, telling each other how good you are with women or how confident you’ve become. Don’t get me wrong – There’s nothing wrong with a community – But the problem is: You will NOT get what you want from life by sitting in front of the computer.
Today, 3 years later from the date I became a member here, I suddenly came to think about Sosuave. I haven’t been online for the last 5 months – and when I log in all these weird memories about my old self came into my mind.
I want to thank everyone that ever posted a message on this board! Seriously! Some of you have been giving me amazing value, and others less but still valuable. I know some of you wont believe me when I say this – But during the last 2 years, I’ve approached around 50-100 people a day, face to face, on a 20 day/month basis.
That’s between 24,000 – 48,000 approaches guys!
How? I’ve been working with sales a lot of the times which is related to approaching young people (18-30 years old).
And yes, these counts in. Even though I haven’t been seducing them sales is about attraction. And this is where it all gets interesting because at this moment in my life;
- I know what I want in every possible perspective of life.
- I have optimistic dreams and desires.
- I run my own company
- I have a nice apartment
- I’ve laid lots of girls, interacted sexually, kissed and seduced an unknown number of them.
- I found an amazing girl I’ve been with for 7 months
- I wake up everyday with a big smile on my face
And I did all of this because you guys, at this board, gave me the insight I needed in order to take action changing myself.
How does this relate to you, you ask?
Good question.
I want to lay it out really simple for you;
Stop thinking, analyzing and reading. I know you learn a lot about yourself analyzing, studying and reading. But please: STOP IT! Why?
Because you’ll never learn as good as when you’re failing and experiencing life. Stop thinking about which stuff that works and GO out. Believe me, I’ve read countless hours of material including audio courses, dvd,s, forum posts and ebooks. I have a bookshelf with material on social psychology, confidence and sales/marketing tactics.
This is all bull****. It’s written to make the author money, and it’s stopping you from taking action. Please, you must realize how important this is. You don’t need this board, you need to go out – and if you think this is a big step, at least go out and do something. It’s not necessary to pick-up women, you need to start taking baby-steps.
Eh, how come?
Because your brain is designed to hold you back. The brain doesn’t like too much change, because it mess-up your behaviours and belief-system. So, you better start taking baby-steps and trick yourself a little bit. Just, please, go out and FORGET about all these techniques, methods and secrets. There IS no secrets! So called secrets are just reframed and clever marketed old-news. Re-invented over and over again to make someone a truckload of money.
Real successful people don’t spend their time on the internet giving other people advice. Well they could be, but most of the time they should be living their life. Their own way.
And this is what it’s all about: Stop listening to what people say, and look at what they do. Would you take a dating advice or seduction advice from a guy that spends 2 hours every day on forum posting in a seduction forum?
C’mon, I know at least that I wouldn’t.
The only reason that I changed is because I had a great opportunity to get a sales job. I’ve been approaching everyone – And of course with a mindset I got from this forum. Thank you all guys!
Model girls, older people, young people, authority figures and celebrities. Approaching everyone talking about all and nothing.
And, it all comes down to one simple thing: Be comfortable with yourself. But, unless you sit at home trying to master different techniques in the theory that will never happen.
So, ones again – Thank you everyone, and the best of luck to those of you who wants to change yourself.
This post ended up a little bit long - But... hopefully I'll be the last thing you ever read at this board, so take your time!
AND PLEASE… Take your time to read this – it will hopefully open your eyes to what you’re doing and where you are in your life at this moment!
If you're new to this board or even been around for a while it's very important that you read this - It changed my way of looking at everything, and also my way of living.
And, i'm 99% sure that everyone who's reaching their goals in life would agree with me.
Here's the facts;
THIS BOARD HAS CHANGED MY LIFE! (No matter how pathetic it might sound).
I joined this board 2.5 years ago. (Join Date: 11-16-2004). I can't really remember why, but I would guess that I was a little bit depressed at this time in my life. Anyway:
Two and a half years later, I’m looking back at myself, and I don’t know if I should be crying or laughing, but the last one is probably the one that I prefer.
This is me, described, 3 years ago:
- A young confused guy without any desires or wishes from his life or himself.
- No self-esteem and no confidence at all.
- No financial structure
- Virgin, no experience at all when it comes to women.
- No job, and no plans to get one either
- A screwed up mindset about life
Here’s the thing;
After I registered at this board I started to change myself. And, I hope you guys understand that it’s not about hanging around here making posts to all the other guys, telling each other how good you are with women or how confident you’ve become. Don’t get me wrong – There’s nothing wrong with a community – But the problem is: You will NOT get what you want from life by sitting in front of the computer.
Today, 3 years later from the date I became a member here, I suddenly came to think about Sosuave. I haven’t been online for the last 5 months – and when I log in all these weird memories about my old self came into my mind.
I want to thank everyone that ever posted a message on this board! Seriously! Some of you have been giving me amazing value, and others less but still valuable. I know some of you wont believe me when I say this – But during the last 2 years, I’ve approached around 50-100 people a day, face to face, on a 20 day/month basis.
That’s between 24,000 – 48,000 approaches guys!
How? I’ve been working with sales a lot of the times which is related to approaching young people (18-30 years old).
And yes, these counts in. Even though I haven’t been seducing them sales is about attraction. And this is where it all gets interesting because at this moment in my life;
- I know what I want in every possible perspective of life.
- I have optimistic dreams and desires.
- I run my own company
- I have a nice apartment
- I’ve laid lots of girls, interacted sexually, kissed and seduced an unknown number of them.
- I found an amazing girl I’ve been with for 7 months
- I wake up everyday with a big smile on my face
And I did all of this because you guys, at this board, gave me the insight I needed in order to take action changing myself.
How does this relate to you, you ask?
Good question.
I want to lay it out really simple for you;
Stop thinking, analyzing and reading. I know you learn a lot about yourself analyzing, studying and reading. But please: STOP IT! Why?
Because you’ll never learn as good as when you’re failing and experiencing life. Stop thinking about which stuff that works and GO out. Believe me, I’ve read countless hours of material including audio courses, dvd,s, forum posts and ebooks. I have a bookshelf with material on social psychology, confidence and sales/marketing tactics.
This is all bull****. It’s written to make the author money, and it’s stopping you from taking action. Please, you must realize how important this is. You don’t need this board, you need to go out – and if you think this is a big step, at least go out and do something. It’s not necessary to pick-up women, you need to start taking baby-steps.
Eh, how come?
Because your brain is designed to hold you back. The brain doesn’t like too much change, because it mess-up your behaviours and belief-system. So, you better start taking baby-steps and trick yourself a little bit. Just, please, go out and FORGET about all these techniques, methods and secrets. There IS no secrets! So called secrets are just reframed and clever marketed old-news. Re-invented over and over again to make someone a truckload of money.
Real successful people don’t spend their time on the internet giving other people advice. Well they could be, but most of the time they should be living their life. Their own way.
And this is what it’s all about: Stop listening to what people say, and look at what they do. Would you take a dating advice or seduction advice from a guy that spends 2 hours every day on forum posting in a seduction forum?
C’mon, I know at least that I wouldn’t.
The only reason that I changed is because I had a great opportunity to get a sales job. I’ve been approaching everyone – And of course with a mindset I got from this forum. Thank you all guys!
Model girls, older people, young people, authority figures and celebrities. Approaching everyone talking about all and nothing.
And, it all comes down to one simple thing: Be comfortable with yourself. But, unless you sit at home trying to master different techniques in the theory that will never happen.
So, ones again – Thank you everyone, and the best of luck to those of you who wants to change yourself.
