Alot of you seem to be against the idea of long term relationships and marriage, thinking it is better to perpetually play the field. I admit I am not a true "DJ" in the sense that I do want to settle down with the right woman. One thing I wonder about is how many of you use condoms? Frankly, I hate using condoms, but realize it is necessary if I don't want to stay disease free.
To me that a major plus for being in a LTR with the right woman, or even a temporary LTR with a good enough woman. In a LTR you reduce the chances of catching a disease so you don't have to wear a condom. What do other people think of this? Do most of you agree sex is much better without one? Do you always use one in a ONS or a short term physical relationship? If so, don't you wish you did not have to use one?

ALWAYS use one unless:

1) You completely trust your long term girlfriend who is taking the pill
2) You have zero doubt in your mind at all that this woman might use you as an unknowing sperm donor (ie: watch out for single women in their late twenties/early thirties)
3) You have zero doubt in your mind that this woman has any sort of disease.

Basically if you are 100% sure that you wont get an STD and that she won't get pregnant (or try to make herself get pregnant via poking holes/lying about BC) then go for it.

Condomless sex is MUCH better for you and her. But it's completely reserved for an LTR with someone I trust and like a great deal.

Yeah, I ALWAYS use em except when:

1. I am in a LTR

2. Am drunk/stoned.

3. I'm too turned on to even remember to slap one on.

JJ.

p.s. Pet hate: wiating for results of STD test to come back.

p.s.s. How good is that feeling of coming out of the Drs with a clean bill? "I'm open for business baby!!!!

Jes, Wilmer has dipped his dink in lots of women. Jo Momma!

I said that in my Wilmer accent.

And yes condoms suck. I can never *** while wearing one. No condom sex feels 10x better.

I can't climax with a rubber on, or maybe I'm just out of shape... lol

I agree with what Kwello said. Although I'm not really and LTR kinda person.