“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Leaving For Trip to Italy,Germany, Neatherlands, Britain next month:Club Scene

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Hi Guys,

I have been reading up the DJ bible and other discussions on this site because I am still a newbie; I have decided to change my life around for the better. Working out and trying to approach more women.

Is there anything I should do during my trip? Would it be a good idea to even let them know im from Toronto Canada.

I will definetaly be clubbing etc while doing the hostil(sp) thing. I really need some help in creating rapport with the people at each hostil because most likely we will be seeing eachother at the clubs; any suggestions would really help.

Would really appreciate any help I can get I need to break out of this and meet more women im dying here. A new setting will definetely help in the confidence aspect too.


Thanks.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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just have fun..

Just put yourself out there and have fun, you will meet dozens of people at each hostel you stay at, just don't have too many expectations. Try learning the basics of a few European languages, the locals will appreciate the effort. Watch out for scams, pickpockets, muggers etc that can prevelant in most major European cities.
 

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risingjuan1 said:
Hi Guys,

I have been reading up the DJ bible and other discussions on this site because I am still a newbie; I have decided to change my life around for the better. Working out and trying to approach more women.

Is there anything I should do during my trip? Would it be a good idea to even let them know im from Toronto Canada.

I will definetaly be clubbing etc while doing the hostil(sp) thing. I really need some help in creating rapport with the people at each hostil because most likely we will be seeing eachother at the clubs; any suggestions would really help.

Would really appreciate any help I can get I need to break out of this and meet more women im dying here. A new setting will definetely help in the confidence aspect too.


Thanks.
ahahaha! Dude, Europe is the greatest for anyone NOT from Europe, why? You are SERIOUSLY NEVER GOING TO SEE ANYONE AGAIN. EVER. Try your craziest ****, have NO regrets. Enjoy your trip and make the most of it.

Rapport? Show the people there that you are a fun person, that alone will get them to like you. Be loud and introduce yourself to everyone - not formal with the handshake, but make a point of meeting everyone. When you hit the clubs, buy one of them a drink, or buy a round of drinks - be the party animal and LEAD them.
 

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TheManlyMan said:
ahahaha! Dude, Europe is the greatest for anyone NOT from Europe, why? You are SERIOUSLY NEVER GOING TO SEE ANYONE AGAIN. EVER. Try your craziest ****, have NO regrets. Enjoy your trip and make the most of it.

Rapport? Show the people there that you are a fun person, that alone will get them to like you. Be loud and introduce yourself to everyone - not formal with the handshake, but make a point of meeting everyone. When you hit the clubs, buy one of them a drink, or buy a round of drinks - be the party animal and LEAD them.
I love it. Advice from an 18 year old about Europe. Girls don't want little boys in most of Europe. 18 year old girls definitely don't want to date 18 year old boys. That is for sure. It isn't America. Remember that.
 

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Just say: Hi, i'm not from around here... do you want to give me a tour. i'm from America-land.
Then watch what happens. :crazy:

BTW i'm going to italy in a couple weeks too... whereabouts are u gonna b?
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Play the Game said:
Just say: Hi, i'm not from around here... do you want to give me a tour. i'm from America-land.
Then watch what happens. :crazy:

BTW i'm going to italy in a couple weeks too... whereabouts are u gonna b?
That won't get you much in those places these days. Every grungy backpacker is over there. Hostels are all over and absolutely packed with every college student in America. Plus, Western Europe is easy, safe, and very prosperous. Much of it has a much higher standard of living than America. The whole American thing went the way of grunge rock. It is dead.

Italy is great if you like fashion, dance music, good food, and soccer. So have a blast and don't worry about girls. When you get older and start feeling unwanted in America I would suggest a trip to the former Soviet Union. Then you can get whatever you want with the American lines.
 

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When you get older and start feeling unwanted in America I would suggest a trip to the former Soviet Union. Then you can get whatever you want with the American lines.
Yup, still true, but you gotta hurry, times are changing breathtakingly fast here, one year in Moscow is 5-10 years in Europe right now, people earning serious money and chicks are already less into foreigners then they were 1-2 years ago...
 

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sparky0000 said:
That won't get you much in those places these days. Every grungy backpacker is over there. Hostels are all over and absolutely packed with every college student in America. Plus, Western Europe is easy, safe, and very prosperous. Much of it has a much higher standard of living than America. The whole American thing went the way of grunge rock. It is dead.

Italy is great if you like fashion, dance music, good food, and soccer. So have a blast and don't worry about girls. When you get older and start feeling unwanted in America I would suggest a trip to the former Soviet Union. Then you can get whatever you want with the American lines.

Nahh it still works, everyone likes something exotic and different, I was there last year!
It's more about separating yourself and being different. If you can't get any in America you probably won't get any there either, although i'll admit it is easier when you're a hot commodity not just some joe shmo down the street. You have the uniqueness factor, you're different, which gives your game an added edge.
Grunge losers aren't exactly in hot demand.
 

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I have never viewed Moscow as being a true indicator of Russia. None of the capitals of the former Soviet Union give you a good feel for the actual country. Visit Riga and all seems well for most. Take a short trip to Latgale and it is like entering a third world country. Go from Vilnius to Alytus. Once again it is culture shock. Kiev to Maripol. Another example. There are so many problems within those places that have nothing to do with money. As appealing as the girls are, the males are just as UNappealing. Drinking, beating, drinking some more are not exactly what a female wants.

From what I hear the girls in Moscow are not so great these days. Moscow females are spoiled. Tons of foreign dudes are there trolling for them. Plus, they have never been the "pretty" Russians. Rostov-on-Don is where the amazing looking girls come from. It is in the south and borders Ukraine. It is world famous for the girls that it produces.

Italy is a great place to visit, but I never really noticed the local girls. Strange thing is that the prettiest girls come from places where no game is needed. A place like Rostov-on-Don...uh...just show the heck up. You know things are bad when your google search results in 90% marriage agency sites and discussions. If you want an even worse hell try Kaliningrad. It is a Russian island surrounded by the likes of Poland and Lithuania. If you don't want to deal with visa hassles just head to the Lithuanian side that borders that region. It isn't much better.
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