So wanna nail this chick...she's only a HB7 but it is what it is...she's around right now...haha

So...she gives me her # at some bar...I'm drunk and had approached then lost interest when my drunk friend got really belligerent but I guess I made an impression.

I follow up have the first date today...just a quick lunch since I'm in grad school and got classes at 2pm. So I set this up on Sunday, she gives some garbarge like "about time we got in touch", and I tell her to come pick me up since I'm on the way. Today (wed.) she calls up before hand to re-confirm...I figure she's actually pretty nervous about this crap if she's gonna re-confirm half an hour before to make sure I'm not standing her up.

So she comes. I get in the car and make fun of her for being worried about getting stood up. Don't get any kino in since the seat is all forward and I've gotta figure out how to fix that crap. She's one of those broads that keeps her seat 1" from the steering wheel so kinda an uptight coiled position to get any kino in.

Get to lunch conversation is flowing well at first...but I immediately notice she sucks at eye contact...terrible...for the last half of the date I wasn't even paying any attention to it. Next problem was that I'd ask questions get her rambling add something pertinent about me to get her to open me up with a question and she almost without fail misses the opportunity. Body language is ok...she's got her arms open on the table towards me for the most part...legs crossed towards me. I'm all opened up chair turned towards her a bit, legs spread just being relaxed and eating my lunch and getting her talking. She's too far to get kino in then as well so no kino still.

Lunch proceeds fairly fast as I've got little time. It feels like a god damn interview though rather than a date. I'm not asking too many questions, she rambles then I help her out when she slows down...she just has crap eye contact, no flirting (i'm used to girls that are interested in me flirting on dates), and perhaps she's not asking me questions because she's either a self centered broad or she's nervous.

In any event should I pursue this further? Imagine she's into me and just nervous as hell since I'm probably a rung higher on the ladder than her looks wise...she's also 3 years younger. Whats the best course to pursue to get some p00n? I don't wanna waste a ton of time/money trying to get her out of her shell or whatever...oh and she wasn't pulling some good shy girl crap either because half way through she started tossing in some profanity into her stories...advise...

Dump her and get the p00n from some other h0

Make her feel comforable and escalate, escalate, escalate. Bam.

You just intimidated her. She three years younger and you say your much better looking then her, she just probably isnt use to that kinda crap. Go to a comedy club or something for a second date and get her to open up via the jokes.

samueladams said:

Imagine she's into me and just nervous as hell since I'm probably a rung higher on the ladder than her looks wise...she's also 3 years younger.

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Neither one of those things mean squat. 1) If I had a nickle for every fat, ugly, American chick that thought she deserved prince charming, I'd be a rich man. 2) Three years age difference: Are you serious? What exactly is the big difference there? It's not like we're talking about a generation gap here.

You want to now the truth? She more than likely wasn't that entertained. I'm in my 30's and occasionally date early 20 something chicks that are literally all perky, bouncy and won't shut F up if it's going all good. But then sometimes you just get the duds no matter what you do....

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Neither one of those things mean squat. 1) If I had a nickle for every fat, ugly, American chick that thought she deserved prince charming, I'd be a rich man. 2) Three years age difference: Are you serious? What exactly is the big difference there? It's not like we're talking about a generation gap here.

You want to now the truth? She more than likely wasn't that entertained. I'm in my 30's and occasionally date early 20 something chicks that are literally all perky, bouncy and won't shut F up if it's going all good. But then sometimes you just get the duds no matter what you do....

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Indeed...I'm used to perky broads but then again I usually only go for the high mainenance sorority biotches. This chick is one of those SoCal chill beach bums that doesn't wear makeup etc. Not my typical choice of pursuit thus it intrigues me...

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Indeed...I'm used to perky broads but then again I usually only go for the high mainenance sorority biotches. This chick is one of those SoCal chill beach bums that doesn't wear makeup etc. Not my typical choice of pursuit thus it intrigues me...

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I know exactly what you mean, man. Up here in Boston it's not much different. You've got your educated, high society standard and then you've got the raunchy chicks with a heavy accent walking around wearing pink Red Sox caps.

My guess is that this one you've got on the string might just be tired of the bumbs in her circle and decided to give a smart guy like you a whirl, but she's out of her league and not sure what to do.

Tell a damn good, raunchy story over some drinks or something, is all I can say. Touch base to her lifestyle a little and see if she opens up to it.

Pretty good insight there, jackman. I would give that a try.

Hmm. I'm pretty new but when a girl isn't givin me enough eye contact I will literally put my hand on her head and turn it towards me, smile, and keep talking. Not too sure if it's good game, but it is kino and it gives you eye contact.

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The legs crossed and lack of eye contact means she felt very uncomfortable around you. Either that or she just didn't like you.