The feeling you have (non-desire) right after you bust a nut would last for weeks. I mean once you bust one ALL of your sexual desire goes right out the window and women are the furthest thing from our minds. Sometimes I think this is a good thing, that is, eliminating desire.

(1) Get a hobby.
(2) Get a passion besides chubs.
(3) Go to a place where beautiful girls want you. This eliminates the lust factor.
(4) Deny yourself movies and television. It only makes you think that it is hard to get something decent looking. In fact, being from NJ makes you wanted by some of the most amazing looking girls on the earth. See, humans crave what they don't think they can get. As a little kid I craved a Nintendo. Finally, my dream was realized. It was nice once I had it, but I still remember the feeling of desire that I had BEFORE getting it more than the time I spent with it. Same goes with girls. Once you become the hunted (rather than the hunter) girls lose much of their mystique. Most Western guys who are stuck in the West put girls on a pedestal. Much like I once put a Nintendo game system on a pedestal.

I have often thought after the sexual release that wow, all that buildup and its over that quick. It does kind of make you wonder, but it is natural.

As far as desire, my libido is really high, but it has scarily disappeared for a while before. It normally involves working tons of hours and getting very little sleep.

But even this week in which I've done just that, I still found great interest in fvcking my gf. In fact I just did, right before work. One great advantage of a live in LTR.