Alright, im not as blind as this post will make me look....I just need a confidence boost and a little bit of re-assurance. Read on..
So ive been in a class for about 3 month's. There was a girl that used to sit across from me when class first started 3 month's ago. She tended to make eyecontact with me often....and held it. Than one day she moved to my side of the room and next to one of her friends. Things where like that for about 2 month's. I always found myself wanting to talk to her, but never did. Things continued that way all the way up till last week.
Our class had been put into groups to do a class project. There where 3 groups....about 7-8 people in each group. I got stuck with a group of random people I didnt know. There would be 3 seperate days for our class to present our project (1 presentation per day) Our group was the first to go. We did our presentation and I found an open seat after our presentation right next to the girl I mentioned previously. I sat down and the people around me where discussing our presentation. I saw it as my oppurtunity to spark up and say something to the girl I mentioned earlier. I asked her if they liked the presentation. She talked about it briefly....we had a little laugh and that was it...the bell rang and class ended.
Day 2 comes along and this time the group with the girl in it where presenting. I chatted with her a bit before they had to present, and when they where done she came and sat back down and we talked some more....got a positive response out her so far.
Day 3 - The final group goes up and this time she caught me lauging at the group presenting because they where like the type that nobody really talked to....not in a mean way but it was just comical to see a bunch of people up there fumbling their words and shaking and stuff. She saw me laughing nad she started laughing too. For the rest of the class period I had her laughing pretty good. And im sure making a girl laugh hard is a definate plus. This time class ended with me and her friend walking out of class together still laughing about the presentation performed earlier in the hour.
Day 4 - we did a group discussing/study for our exam's and this time we got to pick our own groups. I saw this as yet another chance to charm up to the girl. So I basically pointed out who would be in "my" group. She was ofcourse in. The whole time she laughed and giggled her way through class...even when it was dead silent and she stood out in what seemed to be uncontrollable laughter.....now im beginning to think im either very funny or shes just diggin me. The rest of the class went on this way and ended with me walkin down the hall with her after class laughing about things that happend the hour before.
Day 5 - We got into our groups from the day before and she was saying stuff like "i hope we do groups again, that was fun yesterday"....sure enough we got into groups again to study. This time I had her laughing harder than ever.....and earlier in the hour she was the one initiating conversation with me. I didnt even have to start talking to her. She more or less started a conversation at will with me. We were still sitting next to each other. This time I had her laughing uncontrollably to the point that my buddy behind me told me that I was going to kill her from making her laugh so hard. The thing is, she would only laugh like that when I spoke to her. And it coulda been any little joke I tried to make....she laughed hard. She mentioned that she was sad that this was the last real day of class before exam's. I mentioned that the fun only started within the last week....she agreed. Class ended as usual.
Final day of class....**Exam day.
Seat's where still set up to where we sat next to each other. She initiated conversation with me again. Tried to get ME to laugh. I am now confortable with touching her arm and hand and so on...she didnt pull away or mind when I did...I did it everyday for the past 3 days a few times during class. She seemed receptive to me touching her. I would do it almost naturally when trying to get her attention or make a point. She also mimicked my posture often.....like if I leaned back so would she...if I leaned forward she would lean forward. This was when we were taking the test and so on...so I get the impression that she was paying attention to me. Any how...
We had to be quite during exam time, and she was just listening to her ipod after the exam...and once all the test's where handed in I started flirting again....well she initiated it more than I did....by trying to get me to laugh. As we continued to chat along, I mentioned that I needed some chapstick because my lips where dry. So everyone around me pulled out chapstick and laughed at me because I was the only one without any. The girl was the first to pull hers out and she put some on.....she than handed it to me and asked if I wanted to use it. I asked her if I was going to get any diseases, she laughed and told me no....so I put some on and gave it back. I poked fun at the flavor/scent of it and u know did my thing flirting...
She brought up the subject of being sad that the class would be over and she would miss it. I said yea...only the last week of it. I than saw my oppurtunity to go for her myspace/email. I said "Do you got a myspace?" and she told me ya and proceeded to right it down...but before she wrote it down she felt the need to tell me that it was a stupid URL and it was 2 years old...I assumed that she didnt want to feel dumb so she told me that. Than she wrote her last name down for me incase I needed it for the add. The rest of class carried out with me and her laughing it up.
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Over the course of 6 days we seemed to bond really well and get along great. Tons of eyecontact was made, a good amount of touching arm's and hands. Ton's of laughter/giggling. And she was very receptive to me.
Now what I need you all to do is comment on my story and give me a confidence boost. I havent added her on myspace yet, and have yet to talk to her since earlier in the day. We wont have any classes together for the final semester im sure....and I need to know if 6 days was all I needed to get her to hangout with me or something.....
Lets hear your input folks.....and I am curious to see how you would all gauge her interest level in me.......
Thanks, and sorry for the long post!
So ive been in a class for about 3 month's. There was a girl that used to sit across from me when class first started 3 month's ago. She tended to make eyecontact with me often....and held it. Than one day she moved to my side of the room and next to one of her friends. Things where like that for about 2 month's. I always found myself wanting to talk to her, but never did. Things continued that way all the way up till last week.
Our class had been put into groups to do a class project. There where 3 groups....about 7-8 people in each group. I got stuck with a group of random people I didnt know. There would be 3 seperate days for our class to present our project (1 presentation per day) Our group was the first to go. We did our presentation and I found an open seat after our presentation right next to the girl I mentioned previously. I sat down and the people around me where discussing our presentation. I saw it as my oppurtunity to spark up and say something to the girl I mentioned earlier. I asked her if they liked the presentation. She talked about it briefly....we had a little laugh and that was it...the bell rang and class ended.
Day 2 comes along and this time the group with the girl in it where presenting. I chatted with her a bit before they had to present, and when they where done she came and sat back down and we talked some more....got a positive response out her so far.
Day 3 - The final group goes up and this time she caught me lauging at the group presenting because they where like the type that nobody really talked to....not in a mean way but it was just comical to see a bunch of people up there fumbling their words and shaking and stuff. She saw me laughing nad she started laughing too. For the rest of the class period I had her laughing pretty good. And im sure making a girl laugh hard is a definate plus. This time class ended with me and her friend walking out of class together still laughing about the presentation performed earlier in the hour.
Day 4 - we did a group discussing/study for our exam's and this time we got to pick our own groups. I saw this as yet another chance to charm up to the girl. So I basically pointed out who would be in "my" group. She was ofcourse in. The whole time she laughed and giggled her way through class...even when it was dead silent and she stood out in what seemed to be uncontrollable laughter.....now im beginning to think im either very funny or shes just diggin me. The rest of the class went on this way and ended with me walkin down the hall with her after class laughing about things that happend the hour before.
Day 5 - We got into our groups from the day before and she was saying stuff like "i hope we do groups again, that was fun yesterday"....sure enough we got into groups again to study. This time I had her laughing harder than ever.....and earlier in the hour she was the one initiating conversation with me. I didnt even have to start talking to her. She more or less started a conversation at will with me. We were still sitting next to each other. This time I had her laughing uncontrollably to the point that my buddy behind me told me that I was going to kill her from making her laugh so hard. The thing is, she would only laugh like that when I spoke to her. And it coulda been any little joke I tried to make....she laughed hard. She mentioned that she was sad that this was the last real day of class before exam's. I mentioned that the fun only started within the last week....she agreed. Class ended as usual.
Final day of class....**Exam day.
Seat's where still set up to where we sat next to each other. She initiated conversation with me again. Tried to get ME to laugh. I am now confortable with touching her arm and hand and so on...she didnt pull away or mind when I did...I did it everyday for the past 3 days a few times during class. She seemed receptive to me touching her. I would do it almost naturally when trying to get her attention or make a point. She also mimicked my posture often.....like if I leaned back so would she...if I leaned forward she would lean forward. This was when we were taking the test and so on...so I get the impression that she was paying attention to me. Any how...
We had to be quite during exam time, and she was just listening to her ipod after the exam...and once all the test's where handed in I started flirting again....well she initiated it more than I did....by trying to get me to laugh. As we continued to chat along, I mentioned that I needed some chapstick because my lips where dry. So everyone around me pulled out chapstick and laughed at me because I was the only one without any. The girl was the first to pull hers out and she put some on.....she than handed it to me and asked if I wanted to use it. I asked her if I was going to get any diseases, she laughed and told me no....so I put some on and gave it back. I poked fun at the flavor/scent of it and u know did my thing flirting...
She brought up the subject of being sad that the class would be over and she would miss it. I said yea...only the last week of it. I than saw my oppurtunity to go for her myspace/email. I said "Do you got a myspace?" and she told me ya and proceeded to right it down...but before she wrote it down she felt the need to tell me that it was a stupid URL and it was 2 years old...I assumed that she didnt want to feel dumb so she told me that. Than she wrote her last name down for me incase I needed it for the add. The rest of class carried out with me and her laughing it up.
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Over the course of 6 days we seemed to bond really well and get along great. Tons of eyecontact was made, a good amount of touching arm's and hands. Ton's of laughter/giggling. And she was very receptive to me.
Now what I need you all to do is comment on my story and give me a confidence boost. I havent added her on myspace yet, and have yet to talk to her since earlier in the day. We wont have any classes together for the final semester im sure....and I need to know if 6 days was all I needed to get her to hangout with me or something.....
Lets hear your input folks.....and I am curious to see how you would all gauge her interest level in me.......
Thanks, and sorry for the long post!