"i can't trust myself around you.."

what the hell does she mean, now i had her explain and basiclly she said she wanted to bang me so bad but didn't wanna cause drama with (dudes name) and had there been drama i woulda dispatched it right away.

she said this in the heat of the moment while her "dude" was spying on us alone on her deck i told her to come close to me, and she did then she stepped away and i was like come here.. she's like no in a playfull way and then she moved farther away out of my arms reach, then i said come here again and pointed in front of me..

she's like no, i can't trust myself around you besides he's stareing at you.. (pointing to the AFC douche bag)

so wtf does that mean... i was makeing HUUUUGE headway then she slams me with that.. how does a DJ handle a situation like this if it ever comes up again!

You must lead it can't be her fault for why you too had sex. Ever heard some PUAs saying "It just happened" well that is how she should feel. Now when you have sex she'll think, "It was his fault because he lead it to sex and now were fuvking so its not my fault."

Distant Light said:

You must lead it can't be her fault for why you too had sex. Ever heard some PUAs saying "It just happened" well that is how she should feel. Now when you have sex she'll think, "It was his fault because he lead it to sex and now were fuvking so its not my fault."

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Distant Light hit the nail on the head.

She wants it but you need to take all responsibility.

Do her the favour of taking advantage her.

JJ

Jay Jay said:

Distant Light hit the nail on the head.

She wants it but you need to take all responsibility.

Do her the favour of taking advantage her.

JJ

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i have to say that this makes more sense now haveing thought about previous encounters with this girl.. she one time acted in a way that she wanted me to just grab her and make out with here.. i'm talking slam up against the wall type stuff.. espeiclly with these weird looks she gives me like OMG do something now.

so i guess i have no choice but to basiclly "grab" her and make it happen

christz said:

"i can't trust myself around you.."

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This means that she wants to have sex!!

So around most men she can restrain her sexual lust - so she "trusts herself" to keep her clothes on - but around you she cannot restrain herself thus she does not trust herself to maintain the state of keepin her clothes on her body!

This is woman-ese. - it is basically an Anti-Hor defense which she tells to all the guys!!