today while i was with my gf we saw a news regarding how much sex per week a couple would usually have, anyway i said on a funny way that we should have a much more active sex life and do it more times (not that we dont have much, but i want do do it multiple times per day).
Her reply was : Yeah i know we dont do that much we have it when i let (something along those lines) . My mind was in shock not that this is any suprise but she admitting it, My reply was oh yeah one of this days ill go on Strike and said this on a funny way. wich she replyed oh baby dont be upset we dont do it more because i want you to be vigorous when we have it.

Anyway the truth is my Gf completly dominates the sex in the relationship and im always the one initating it. how can i change tables?

What's worse, her remark or that you are putting up with it? Either play her game and pull completely back or go find someone you are sexually compatable with.

Francisco d'Anconia said:

What's worse, her remark or that you are putting up with it? Either play her game and pull completely back or go find someone you are sexually compatable with.

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Besides that issue she has really, been love and caring and cant complain her IL is high , anyway im keeping other options open , and trying to get some FB on the side.

So dumping for now its not a option , whats the best way to change tables, if im unable to do it i will consider dumping her

What the hell is a hor for if you can't have sex when you want??? Men dictate and the women follows!!! A wife is obligated to please her man - but I guess a hor can do as she wishes, as long as you put up with it!

Its not like she`s depriving me of sex , we have it like once a day if we have the chance, i just want to regain some power regarding sex. Im im pondering a FB and keep my options open. as i said on a previous post