“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Should I try to hit it again?

STR8UP

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Had a casual relationship with a chick awhile back. Turns out she knows some of my friends, and I became good friends with her friends, etc, etc.

Actually her best friend does some work for me. The best friend is a really cool chick that I hang out with often.

So this girl I was hooking up with ended up getting a boyfriend (long distance, what a joke!). Said she still wants to be friends, blah, blah, blah. I said "No prob". We still hang out in a group setting from time to time, but I don't make any special effort and I certainly don't ask about her or her personal life.

It just cracks me up how women can't let it rest when they have a thing for you even when they are in a relationship.

Her best friend always has to make it a point to probe me on a weekly basis for information about who I hang out with on the weekends and such. Where did I go, who did I go with, the whole nine. She tries to be subtle about it, but I can see right through her motivations. I'm sure she isn't out of the door five minutes before she's relaying the data to her friend.

I was out with the best friend about a week ago, We all went to get food at 3am and I was joking around about making a booty call, and I asked her which one of the girls from earlier that night I should call. Should I call the hottie that I met at the end of the night, should I call the one who already has a thing for me, who should it be? I knew the info would get back to her friend so I was having fun with it.

So she says "All those girls were ugly, you should call M" (her friend). I didn't respond to that comment but later on it made me wonder why she would say something like that when she knows her friend has a b/f. The best friend is VERY much against cheating, btw.

So now I'm wondering if I should say "fukk it" and throw down on the old booty call. Sounds to me like she wants it. She even told me once that she has "missed me" since she got into a relationship.

Probably be an easy hookup without having to worry about commitment, but is it worth it?
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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STR8UP said:
Had a casual relationship with a chick awhile back. Turns out she knows some of my friends, and I became good friends with her friends, etc, etc.

Actually her best friend does some work for me. The best friend is a really cool chick that I hang out with often.

So this girl I was hooking up with ended up getting a boyfriend (long distance, what a joke!). Said she still wants to be friends, blah, blah, blah. I said "No prob". We still hang out in a group setting from time to time, but I don't make any special effort and I certainly don't ask about her or her personal life.

It just cracks me up how women can't let it rest when they have a thing for you even when they are in a relationship.

Her best friend always has to make it a point to probe me on a weekly basis for information about who I hang out with on the weekends and such. Where did I go, who did I go with, the whole nine. She tries to be subtle about it, but I can see right through her motivations. I'm sure she isn't out of the door five minutes before she's relaying the data to her friend.

I was out with the best friend about a week ago, We all went to get food at 3am and I was joking around about making a booty call, and I asked her which one of the girls from earlier that night I should call. Should I call the hottie that I met at the end of the night, should I call the one who already has a thing for me, who should it be? I knew the info would get back to her friend so I was having fun with it.

So she says "All those girls were ugly, you should call M" (her friend). I didn't respond to that comment but later on it made me wonder why she would say something like that when she knows her friend has a b/f. The best friend is VERY much against cheating, btw.

So now I'm wondering if I should say "fukk it" and throw down on the old booty call. Sounds to me like she wants it. She even told me once that she has "missed me" since she got into a relationship.

Probably be an easy hookup without having to worry about commitment, but is it worth it?

If the sex was good before why not? You dont have to get into a relationship with her, after all you have a good reason not too, she has a boyfriend. Just hit it and move on. Girls always keep a guy on the back burner, hit it and then just tell her you cant be anything more than a booty call because she has a b/f. Give it right back to her. Dont be her backburner guy who doesnt get any ass though......Its a good reason to just use her to get the sex you want.

Only you really know if its worth it. What are you expecting to come of it, if just sex, sure. If your after a relationship, I dunno. Thats your call
 

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Meh. *Shrug*

It's just sex. Why bother "trying to hit it again" when she can be the one doing all the trying? Meanwhile, you're getting sex with chicks without bf's.

Just something for you to think about.
 

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Carpy said:
If the sex was good before why not? You dont have to get into a relationship with her, after all you have a good reason not too, she has a boyfriend. Just hit it and move on. Girls always keep a guy on the back burner, hit it and then just tell her you cant be anything more than a booty call because she has a b/f. Give it right back to her. Dont be her backburner guy who doesnt get any ass though......Its a good reason to just use her to get the sex you want.
The only problem with this chick is that she gets a little jealous when she drinks, so that could be an issue. Always issues...why can't it be simple?

I'm about 99% sure this chick still has a thing for me despite having a b/f, and from what I gather from her friend she's still game, but my problem is that I don't want to have to deal with any ASD from ANY woman, let alone one that I have already fukked.

I guess I'm just lazy.
 
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