Whats up all,

Ive been browsing this forum for a very long time, and thought I'd finally drop in. Anyway me and my sister are pretty close and she just broke up with her boyfriend. We got to talking about men, women relationships. I just found it funny that the things that she talked about in wanting in a man is a lot of the material you read on here.

I figured it would sound different coming from a girl in real life situations rather than just reading theory on it.

My sister is very assertive and direct however her last boyfriend was not. She was telling me, no matter what women always want you to take the lead. Whenever you are going out, don't be asking "what do you want to do?". When she used to go to dinner with her boyfriend he'd ask." I don't know, what are you having?". Total turn off. Men should where the pants. Basically she was telling me, women ALWAYS want the man to take control. No matter what women want you to believe, women always want you to take the lead.

She mentioned she was talking actually to a new guy. She mentioned he was shy around her. In a conversation she mentioned him saying he does not like approaching women. She said he did not like being "the hunter". "Yeah" my sister was telling me,"It must suck being a guy, and I would hate being a guy cause I don't like approaching people, but you have to be the man. Approach me" Its up to the guy usually to make the first move. Don't be afraid, because its usually the man who makes the first move. She actually respects guys more who make the moves.

Also for those who think looks are important they are but only to a certain point. Naturally it depends on the girl, however her last BF was kind of chubby. Now,one thing she was telling me, if you have personality, and your spirits vibe with her she can look past that. Seeing how they split up for various reasons, my sister usually goes for lean athletic guys but because the her last BF did have some other great traits and they vibed, she went out with him. Trust me girls value personality. If you don't think your are her type it does not mean you don't have a shot.

Also in line with just being assertive she told me a story that mentioned her friend. Her friend just had a policy of not letting guys sleep over for the night. One time she brought this dude over and he fell asleep. She woke him up and told him he could not sleep there unless they were in a relationship. He said ,"I guess I'm sleeping here then" and he went back to sleep lol

So in summary I guess be assertive, never apologize for your desires. never underestimate your chances with women and be self confident. There was more but this post was kind of long. Sorry for the length guys. Later

good eye opener. thanks!

Respect that.

saw this from the front page, and it said 'mys sister giving me some'. I thought 'troll thread', then I came to the main page and saw the whole title.

Great post. The thing that got my attention most was about approaching women. Approach, approach, approach. My best female friend who's pretty damn hot told me that all the boyfriends she's had in the past are guys who just approach her. Then we got to talking more about that and I told her, "hey, I approached you right?" she said, "yeah, you did approach me." I need to keep this in mind every time I go out to the social scene.

FM 3321 said:

Great post. The thing that got my attention most was about approaching women. Approach, approach, approach. My best female friend who's pretty damn hot told me that all the boyfriends she's had in the past are guys who just approach her. Then we got to talking more about that and I told her, "hey, I approached you right?" she said, "yeah, you did approach me." I need to keep this in mind every time I go out to the social scene.

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I second that. BUT....You can approach a million times and FAIL if the women does not VALUE you. And don't buy into women saying they "respect" men who approach them. We are MEN..we want to GET LAID...just because she "respects" you doesn't mean she will BANG you. Women are comical when they give advice to men.

One time she brought this dude over and he fell asleep. She woke him up and told him he could not sleep there unless they were in a relationship. He said ,"I guess I'm sleeping here then" and he went back to sleep lol

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haha my current girl did that to me except replace "sleep" with "fcuk" i bet it's pretty common...

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haha my current girl did that to me except replace "sleep" with "fcuk" i bet it's pretty common...

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Dammit. One more awesome play I wish I knew when I was AFC. Ah well, Here's to the future!

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haha my current girl did that to me except replace "sleep" with "fcuk" i bet it's pretty common...

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I guess im fcuk here then...

nice one

Must approach. I went to a trendy bar on Friday night. My AFC friend would not approach or even ring a girl's number he got last year, just to see whatr would happen. I approached several girls and got one solid number close.

Moral: Approach approach approach!!!

thanks, sisters ALWAYS have great advice

she gave you some damn good advice bro. Thx for sharing

This is now officially Gold, Mods Please Sticky, so everyone can have the chance to read.

Mitch A.K.A. Smoke *Got this nickname racing with a buddy of mine on Need for Speed: Most wanted* Yes I a little geeky But it's never stopped me before :O Sarge On People!

P.S. How the nickname formed, had 10 cops chasing me while I was in the lead, One tried to ram my car, I Nossed it, cop missed hit another, and then they piled up leaving literally no room for my buddy to pass, it was the best race ever.

Dude..that was completely off topic.

Meh I don't think anyone is reading this anymore lol