“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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NorPacWolf

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Sat. Feb. 24. 12 PM-2:30 AM.
Venue: Country/Western club/bar


I'll try to keep this concise. There were some hot sets which fizzled out since I did not lead aggressively.

Chick Approach #1:
Walking with my wing C, to the country/western joint, I'm opened by a hot gal (early twenties, brown hair, hb8+). She walks out of a restaurant:

hb: "what are you up to? Is there a good place to go?" (the gist of what she said).

me: "I'm trying to get some gum. Do you know of a place to get some gum."

hb loses interest, says she doesn't know, and walks off. (Man, that was lame.) It still surprises me when girls open me, even though it happens several times every night.
Wing C says: "did you see that girl?! She was hot! She was hot! I mean, maybe if had something more interesting than 'where can I find some gum?' (Duuuuh).
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I opened a bunch of sets, but like I said, I did not lead sufficiently, and the girls I open run off to the dance floor.


Hot Set #1: Hot Blonde/Hot Brunette:
A very pretty blonde gal (early twenties hb8+) is checking me out over her shoulder in line. I see the blonde again by the bar. She's staring at me, I'm staring back. I finally say hi to her and she says hi back.

I re-open her by going indirect, trying to incite jealousy by opening her girlfriend, an hb8+ hispanic gal (jet black, slightly wavy hair, brown skin etc.). She looks great; they both do. Anyway, the hispanic gal takes a stronger liking to me than I had anticipated. She's kinoing me, leaning in, the whole bit. Then the blonde gets jealous, hugs her hispanic friend, and says: "she belongs to me. she's my property."

I re-open the hispanic gal, and try to lead her by the hand. The hispanic girl says "no" and leads me by the hand in the opposite direction. We round the corner to get to the bar. Before doing so, the hispanic girl stops, reaches around and fondles my ass, smiling and looking into my eyes.

me: "did you just fondle my ass?"
hb: "maybe..."

I ditch the girl, and go to the bathroom. Chickensh1t move. The hispanic gal frowns at me over her shoulder and rejoins her girlfriend. I tell her I'll rejoin her after I pee. The girl says "ok" very skeptically. What a bonehead move. As soon as the gal goes direct on me, I bail on her.

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Hot set #2: Chick Approach 2: Jessica Simpson (hb8) and Brunette Girlfriend (hb7):


This next set starts off well. I tell a Jessica Simpson look a like she looks like Jessica Simpson at the bar. Then I say she doesn't look exactly like her since she has freckles. The kino begins with the hugs on her part, and I'm reciprocating. Lots of laughing (both girls), yada yada yada.

Now, some other blonde, a seriously stacked blonde approaches me. She begins rubbing against me repeatedly at the bar as I talk with JS and her friend. She's elbowing me, resting her body on mine, rubbing her tits against me. (This exact same scenario has replayed itself each time, the last four times I've visited this place).

me: "hi." I say over my shoulder.
chick approach: "where's your woman? That's not your woman (pointing to JS)! Where's your woman?" A jealousy plot-line involving two hot blondes literally walks right into my lap.

JS begins to threaten the blonde groping me, challenging her to a fight. Then JS says she's just joking. Chick approach says her man is "over there." I ignore her (turning my back to her) and return to JS and friend.

I re-open JS later on the dance floor. She ignores the guy chatting her up and I dance with JS doing some kind of cowboy/hick line dance (I'm trying to fit in here). This is where I lose the girl. We're all on the dance floor at the end of the line dance. Instead of leading JS to the middle of the floor, I just remain there, dancing lamely. I don't kino her, or lead her, or anything. This is where I lose the set. The girls go off, and that's that. I try to re-open them later, but they leave.

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Hot set #3: Hot blonde 9 and redhead 5 (glasses):

me: "I can't believe you're wearing glasses!" I say to the redhead.
Again, I'm trying to run some Mystery Method by opening with the obstacle.
Both girls are laughing riotously. The blonde is Norwegian and the redhead is Irish. Some guy enters the set: he's the friend of the redhead's boyfriend.
I incorporate him into our conversation. I chat with the blonde occasionally, focusing on the redhead more.

The conversation's going really well, but after a while, the redhead decides she wants to dance. Again, I lose the set since I don't lead sufficiently or isolate the blonde.

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Conclusion:

The patterns are more or less fixed.
1. Several girls approach me every night. This time, the girls approaching me are hot, which I appreciate.
2. Lots of hot sets, which I lose since I don't lead or escalate to, or on, the dance floor sufficiently.

Recommendations to self: lead and escalate on the dance floor. This is customary in situations like this.

Any other recommendations and feedback welcome...
 

realsmoothie

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Just curious: why do you figure you get approached so much? I know girls occasionally find me cute, but I rarely get "approached".
 

NorPacWolf

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The obvious answer to that question is one's physical presence. I say "obvious" since girls are approaching me without us having spoken before. I say "presence" because this term encompasses several factors:

a. your face
b. your body
c. your clothes
d. your body language (confidence is communicated via smiling, good posture, keeping hands out of your pocket, speaking slowly, etc.)

Most human communication is non verbal: the factors stated above, plus voice tonality, pupil dilation, the focus of our eyes, etc. is how we "size people up." The number of opportunities rise dramatically and sets warm much more quickly when you pay attention to your body (physical presence), compared to other guys who do not pay attention to these things (which is the vast majority of men).

Here are some fashion tips:

http://www.themysterymethod.com/forum/forumdisplay.php?f=31

Work out, eat right, dress well, take care of your skin, and examine the mannerisms, body language and voice tonality of men who project leadership qualities, and especially strong immediate sexual confidence.

I know guys who've spent 10K on workshops and audio/video from gurus and they still get blown out nearly every time. Why? They're too lazy to eat right and exercise, and they still dress like slobs.

So much of game techniques (DHV's and routines) are designed to compensate for serious to minor deficits in "physical presence" issues. Work on your "presence" and physicality and reap the rewards.

Wolf

realsmoothie said:
Just curious: why do you figure you get approached so much? I know girls occasionally find me cute, but I rarely get "approached".
 
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