Would a long term relationship workout when she thinks everyone else is way hotter than me?...ugh...it's such a great relationship but i'm tired of her telling me how hot all these guys are and how sexy they are...maybe i'm being weak and insecure but i'm just hurt internally cuz for me she's hotter than anyone else...now i feel like i have to look my best just for her to appreciate me and it sucks so bad cuz now i feel like i have to be someone else in order to please her...i don't think i can stay with her knowing i'm not the only guy that could wet her pants...okay w/e...ugh!

vagrant said:

Would a long term relationship workout when she thinks everyone else is way hotter than me?...ugh...it's such a great relationship but i'm tired of her telling me how hot all these guys are and how sexy they are...maybe i'm being weak and insecure but i'm just hurt internally cuz for me she's hotter than anyone else...now i feel like i have to look my best just for her to appreciate me and it sucks so bad cuz now i feel like i have to be someone else in order to please her...i don't think i can stay with her knowing i'm not the only guy that could wet her pants...okay w/e...ugh!

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you need to elaborate, which guys?
When you say everyone else, what make's you think everyone?

This reads really wierd, explain more.

vagrant said:

Would a long term relationship workout when she thinks everyone else is way hotter than me?...ugh...it's such a great relationship but i'm tired of her telling me how hot all these guys are and how sexy they are...maybe i'm being weak and insecure but i'm just hurt internally cuz for me she's hotter than anyone else...now i feel like i have to look my best just for her to appreciate me and it sucks so bad cuz now i feel like i have to be someone else in order to please her...i don't think i can stay with her knowing i'm not the only guy that could wet her pants...okay w/e...ugh!

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Yes, you are being weak.

A true Don Juan won't give half a fvck. Straighten up man, this could very well be a sh!t test, next time she does this, ignore her and go game some randoms in front of her.

You need to be confident in yourself, cause by reading your post, i'm guessing thats what you subconsciously convey to her, and thats not what you want. If she always goes on about all these other hot guys, tell her to jump the lake, NEXT.

Go find someone else that doesn't try and make you feel like sh!t, not that it should even bother you.

play her game period! i remember dating this one girl who was really cute but her problem was she spoke to loudly. if we were around her friends. i would hear he's hot or hes really good looking. so one night i invited her out with a bunch of my single friends and when girls walked by i would comment look at the azz on that, oh my god juggy juggernaut...yes and hi-5 them. my girlfriend then called me rude and disrespectful and i told her to shut up because it's no difference commenting on how hot or goodlooking a guy is. later down the road her comments changed when a girl would ask her what do you think of that guy she would just say my guy is sexier.

girls look and dress hot and chances are if your at a bar with your girl she probably isn't in the same league because most girls are insecure and compare themsleves to other women. guys well we just don't look half as sexy as women.