“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Need Help With A Waitress

tomcat2007

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Dear Guys:
I need some advice. I have gone this Sports/Stadium bar to work on business plan for college. To make this story short their is this cute waitress who works there that has caught my attention. She seen me before(from university in another town) and has asked about the project/helped me out. I cut to the chase: How do I ask her out without scaring her off, having her throw me out/get a restraining order, or have her employer S**t a brick at me. I have read some the "how to get waitresses threads" but need some advice for the final push and to close the deal. Any help would be appreciated. Cheers Guys. Later
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Pappadapolis

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Be upfront and confident. Then ask her straight up, "Jane, I'd like to take you out. What's your phone number?"
 

JPFromTally

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tomcat2007 said:
How do I ask her out without scaring her off, having her throw me out/get a restraining order, or have her employer S**t a brick at me.
If you think this is what's going to happen then you're already hurting yourself.
 

ValleyDJing

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JPFromTally said:
If you think this is what's going to happen then you're already hurting yourself.
For real...seems like everyone on here is paranoid about stupid s.hit. I hear all this crap like, "oh i'm scared to have sex with her cuz she might claim I raped her...blah blah blah". Thats an excuse to continure to be a virgin.
 

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tomcat2007 said:
Dear Guys:
I need some advice. I have gone this Sports/Stadium bar to work on business plan for college. To make this story short their is this cute waitress who works there that has caught my attention. She seen me before(from university in another town) and has asked about the project/helped me out. I cut to the chase: How do I ask her out without scaring her off, having her throw me out/get a restraining order, or have her employer S**t a brick at me. I have read some the "how to get waitresses threads" but need some advice for the final push and to close the deal. Any help would be appreciated. Cheers Guys. Later
Read this extraction i posted in a similar topic, its good.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=116555

Read it!
 
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