“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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different ways to lift?

nosmirk

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okay, i have heard of these 3 different ways to lift:

1. heavy weight, almost near your 1 rep max. for 1-5 reps

2. your normal weight, 75-80% of 1 rep max. the usual 8-12 reps

3. much lighter. not sure of % and number of reps, but i figure 50% and 12 reps?


now apparent these 3 methods have different effects.

would someone care to clarify these methods and their effectiveness?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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1. Mainly strength, but you will gain some good size. It won't just be "beach muscle". Think, powerlifters, strongmen, etc. (Ignore the whole body composition sh*t. Many of those guys don't give a f*ck about bf%. Pay attention to the strength and overall size of those bad mother f*ckers)

2. Generally "beach muscle". Good deal of muscular hypertrophy but it's not as strong due to the lighter weights used. It looks pretty, though. Think bodybuilders and your average teen lifter.

3. Endurance. You won't gain a whole lot of size like this. Think soccer/world football players?
 

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the three 'ways' you've listed are all individually suboptimal for the average lifter.

most of us experience a good balance between size & strength using 2 or 3 sets of 5-8 reps for most exercises after warming up adequately (which is nearly always more sets & reps of lighter weight than you think). you can get your beach muscle faster (if that's your thing) & it sticks around more permanently this way.

some advocate using some or all of these in particular combinations to hit your muscles in different ways through a one or two week cycle. this is certainly unnecessary for beginning and intermediate lifters who should focus primarily on building strength in the core, back, and legs using big ass compound lifts with the heaviest weight they can safely mange and still execute proper form.

all of that said, nutrition & rest are more important than rep range, since you grow when you're outside the gym.
 

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Another: 60% of your 1 rep maximum can be done for 2-3 reps on exercises like the Olympic lifts, to work on explosiveness. The reps are low like this to be able to do them as explosively as possible but maintaining good form throughout.

Light weights high reps work on your endurance. Like very low weight squats for 20-25 reps work your stamina well, example.
 
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