“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I got this out of a self-help type book a while back, and it can be pretty useful.


When he/she does ____ I choose to think ________ which causes me to feel ________________.


What this does is it forces one to recognize that he/she is choosing the affect someone has on him/her. The cognitions are causal to the feelings, but the other person's actions are not.


It is fairly easy to just tape this thing under the keyboard and run through it when fretting over another person's behavior.
 
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It is proactivity. Usually it goes

experience----feel----think

but proactivity is taking over the process

experience-----think----then feel.

So whatever you think is what you feel. So it is possible to control your feelings. But remember not to become a robot with permagrin
 
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