Scientists Endorse Mystery Method

I was on Mystery's site and found this to be interesting. I decided to share it with you guys.

"The Method Works On A Deeper
Level Than Even Mystery Knows"

"Cynthia Hazan, the professor of human development (Cornell associate) thinks the Method works on a deeper level than even Mystery knows. First of all, she says, “you knock [the woman] off balance” with the neg, so throughout the next phases “her judgment is impaired. She becomes focused on getting his attention and approval and getting back into the group.”

From the point of view of evolutionary psychology, she adds, “it's really anxiety-provoking, and humans have a built-in aspect where when we're anxious we want to get closer to other people.” Even here we're conditioned to respond, Hazan says. “Vulnerability draws us to people—it's clearly a hardwired characteristic. We have this spontaneous desire to nurture them, to alleviate their distress.”


"That System Will Kick In
And She'll Feel Attraction"

The act of negging an attractive woman can even tamper with her brain chemistry, says Helen Fisher, the author of 'Why We Love: The Nature and Chemistry of Romantic Love'. “When you fall in love with somebody, what's going on in the brain is an elevated activity of dopamine,” the main arousal chemical, and “the system that motivates you to win a reward,” she explains. “A woman who's a 9 or a 10 doesn't have to do any work to get a man, so the system usually isn't triggered and she doesn't feel romantic love. But when someone spurns her, that system will kick in and she'll feel attraction.” And when the woman discovers she's been conned? Once people learn the truth, says Fisher, it often doesn't matter: “The thing is, once you've hooked somebody in, they'll be willing to ignore almost anything.”


"The Method Is A Shrewd Compression
Of The Phases Of Love ..."

Desmond Morris, the British zoologist and sexuality expert, admits that the Method is a shrewd compression of the phases of love. “One of the great mistakes men make is not playing all the stages of courtship,” he says. “It has to be done stage by stage if it's going to work.”

Of course scientists endorse it-

how ELSE can they can laid?

this explains why the jerks get the hot chicks, but the relationship doesn't last. they're not attracted to jerks, it's that jerks belittle them and trigger these chemicals, causing them to fall in love.

I beleive compliments work better than negs when trying to pick up.

Emperor Jack I hear you, but this is saying, hot girls hear complements ALL THE TIME. Complements mean nothing to a hot girl. Take something you're good at, and you know it. Does it really make you feel good if someone says "you're good at that" when you know it? Probably not much, but if someone complements you unexpectedly, on something you don't think you're all that good at, the complement means more... this is what is being said here. So in order for YOUR compliments to stand out, you have to neg her first. Then, you "reward" her with a complement. This complement is unusual coming from you, so it stands out, so it creates dopamine in her brain, which makes her feel good, which builds attraction. I've been looking into this, and basically, it's saying romantic love is just a chemical reaction in your brain. Pretty interesting.

The more i think about it, it makes sense like this.... you throw in a lot of snide remarks, but not too much to turn her off, then, once in a while throw a random complement in there... this random complement would mean the most, and random rewards are what motivate people than any other type of award.

This, I know, because of all the type of rewards out there, random awards are the most addicting. This is what I learned in psychology. People try harder to get random rewards than any other type of award out there. It's why suckers pump all that money in slot machines hoping for a random award. But this is very abstract and hard to apply to seduction. I'll see what I can do.

i like what your saying rrrrr. it makes alot of sense. this guy at work was telling me that he always ends up being the friend or brother to girls. he also went to say that you have to be good-looking to get any decent chick. psychology wise women see looks in a different way then men. in the subconscience when a woman sees alot of chicks hitting on the goodlooking guy it isn't really the challenge or mystery that this guy possesses that attracts her. it's her subconscience saying if he's goodlooking than chances are if we mate than my offspring will acquire those same goodlooking traits and reap the benefits. then she sees a big guy bang into mr.hotty and pushes him and he turns all panzy. instantly her subconscience activates again and says if he passes those genetics to our child then they will be bullied and they won't be able to protect themselves. she then passes on the guy with looks.

then take some homely big guy. he has charm, he's funny, and he doesn't take crap from anybody. everybody sees him as the life of the party. in the subconscience mind of a woman. it tells her that charm, funny and doesn't take crap from anybody means that their child will not be a pushover and their personality will attract many people.

looks are a bonus. but making those chemicals go haywire in a woman is truly magic. thats how you succeed with women. sometimes i wonder what i'm ranting about?

Maximus Rex said:

And when the woman discovers she's been conned? Once people learn the truth, says Fisher, it often doesn't matter: “The thing is, once you've hooked somebody in, they'll be willing to ignore almost anything.”

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This is the straight up truth. Keep this in mind guys. This is were not giving up trying to seduce a woman will net a result. Find the hook and she is yours, regardless of how she would normaly feel about you (I've seen it many times with female friend HBs).

The problem for most guys is keeping them hooked.

"“One of the great mistakes men make is not playing all the stages of courtship,” he says. “It has to be done stage by stage if it's going to work.”

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BS. Speaking from experiences there are no hard and fast stages to courtship or seduction. And learning how to bypass certain stages will do wanders for your peace of mind and yield even greater success than working "stage by stage."