A lot of times I come on sosuave to ask questions or compare situations or complain and this time is no different. Today I'm complaing something people (mainly women) do. I call it "reality warping". It happens when they see that you are in a situation that they don't agree with. I have no problem with taking advice but these people make me sick. Here's and example of what I mean. You're talking to a girl about how you date multiple girls to find the right one. She doesn't agree. Then she goies on a tirade of how she never dated many guys when she was your age. . Then you do a little investigating and find out she was the biggest slvt in highschool. The same goes for people or religion who try harshly to convert you when they are big time sinner who would make the devil simile in anticipation. My point is I hate these people who lie about what they've done/do. Tell the truth, these people seem to think they are better then you and say oh you're going to hell you don't appreciate this I'm better then that. I'll give you another example. My sister had sex with a girls boyfriend on the job. The girl confronted her. The girls boyfriend is abusive. So my sister thinks it was her right to have sex with him. Thinking she is better. In my opinion my sister is wrong about it and should apologize. But she gets mad and curses the girl . Anybody else see what I'm getting at. Don't get mad at someone tell the truth. Don't try to get someone else down. I'm not telling you guys what to do just don't lie that much......... Coming soon new rules new priorities

I'm with you dude.

I agree that excessive lying messes up your sence of reality. You see so many people who seem to believe their own lies. Then there are the ****ers who feel that, if they have done something wrong, a good lie will exonerate them... it ****s me.



JJ

been reading that book "How to win friends and influence people" and he touches on this. Basically people will usually see themselves from a positive POV. He talked of a guy who had murdered a cop. That guy described himselve as a gentle and kind person who would hurt noone! Thats an extreme example but people for the most part think like this about most situations.

vorbis said:

been reading that book "How to win friends and influence people" and he touches on this. Basically people will usually see themselves from a positive POV. He talked of a guy who had murdered a cop. That guy described himselve as a gentle and kind person who would hurt noone! Thats an extreme example but people for the most part think like this about most situations.

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I've never read that book Vorbis. I copied and pasted it. I'll check it out later. I just hate people like that. I tell people advice but then warn them that I might have or done what I'm advising them not to do.