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Girlfriend losing interested....in sex and other things

Jamesdl

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It's not that she has someone else. but the things she does it urks me. she moved like a year ago, about an hour drive, so i expect things to be different. before we used to have sex everyday, now i'll be lucky to get it once every one or two weeks when she comes over. no more oral from her for a few months now. if it is, it's out of pitty. she still calls me everday once or twice,but that doesn't do anything for me. we talk for about 5 minutes. i don't know why, not having sex frustrates me. she comes over every one or 2 weeks, and when she does she says she too tired to "do anything"(have sex), but she up and ready to go out and party, when i ask her she wants to go out. she doesn't get on top anymore, and she's waiting for me to finish. she doesn't seem to be intersted anymore. it's driving me nuts. i haven't picked up my phone for 2 days now, since she left back home. what's the best route to get thing rolling again.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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Be done with her. This happened to me as well. It means the girl is no longer interested in the relationship.
 

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maybe she not interested in the sex part..which too many guys is a big part of the relationship.
 

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Jamesdl said:
maybe she not interested in the sex part..which too many guys is a big part of the relationship.
Sex shouldn't be the only thing in a relationship but it's still an important barometer of its health. More often than not there's an event which coincides with when sex frequency drops off.

Obviously her moving would lessen the frequency. Distance normally erodes a relationship that hasn't established a solid, long term foundation prior to the move. Also, unless there is a plan for reuniting permanently, the probability of the relationship surviving is extremely low.
 
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