Where do I start? SoSuave has helped me immensely in refining and fine tuning my game. I never had trouble getting girls before, I'm a good lucking guy and pretty confident naturally. My own problem was that I always fell for girls to easily and became consumed by my love for them which eventually lead to the destruction of the relationship. Now what I've noticed that when dating younger girls (16-17, I'm 18) is that they always talk about how they want a RELATIONSHIP. Now prior to this site and a girl breaking my heart over the summer I would have thought this was a good thing but now I have a huge barrier in which I feel girls have to cross before I even consider having a relationship with a girl. Now with younger girls who have no real experience in relationships (I.E. virgins) i have to assume that when they say they don't cheat and don't do bad things (like **** 10 different dudes or play games) its because of sheer innocence and because they don't know any better. But then again maybe there are girls out there that just aren't slutty like that? Just like there are guys that are cheaters that aren't and some that are, it depends on the person. But is this part of the risk I should be willing to take? I also know that they aren't just saying this to impress me because I usually make it clear that I'm not in a relationship and I see many girls so they know I'm not the relationship type. I also know with Virgins you have to invest an amount a certain amount of time and build trust with these girls before anything happens. I'm just wondering if I allow myself too be in a relationship with a girl who is inexperienced and dosent know what I know and believe what she says about not cheating and not being a slut would I just be fooling myself because I know what girls nature is truly like? Or should I just follow my own intuition and continue to stay cautious if a relationship ever develops. I know for A FACT with girls that aren't virgins and are experienced I know to be extremely cautious but with inexperienced girls it seems different...any input would be appreciated...
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Younger Girls/ Virgins?
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Before I begin, I'd like to say that much of what you think you know "for a FACT" is actually somewhat warped information, and it's causing you a lot of unnecessary anguish.
Now then... The impression I get from your post is that you think that relationships are more dangerous than trying to assassinate the Pope or something! You've really let your hurt feelings from your last breakup warp your perception of girls, man... and the thing is, the ONLY reason you got hurt so bad the last time, and consequently the only reason you've become so cynical, is because of ONE-ITIS. If you work on lowering your susceptibility to one-itis (and eventually becoming immune to it), you'll find that you'll be able to keep your emotions in check when dealing with chicks, and as a result relationships become MUCH easier to deal with.
Having said that, there are indeed some girls who cheat and like to toy with guys. There are also some girls who do not do that. However, the sad reality is that a lot of the time, you can never know for sure which girls fall into which category. It's an unavoidable risk, regardless of how experienced the chick is. So what does this mean for you? It means that if this risk scares you enough, you will never have a relationship, ever. You'll avoid heartbreak, but you'll also never experience how fulfilling a good relationship can be. However, if you can keep your emotions in check and prevent yourself from developing one-itis, the potential "heartbreak" aspect will become a non-issue to you. If you're emotionally sound, breakups will start to feel similar to losing at one of those overpriced amusement park games - it sucks, but it's no big deal, right? Once you develop this kind of mindset, the "risk" of entering into a relationship will no longer bother you. In fact, it will COMPLETELY DISAPPEAR!!! When this happens, you have nothing to lose from a relationship. Worst case scenario, you gain some life experience. That's still a plus, no?
Always remain positive, bro
. You only harm yourself by being cynical and negative.
Now then... The impression I get from your post is that you think that relationships are more dangerous than trying to assassinate the Pope or something! You've really let your hurt feelings from your last breakup warp your perception of girls, man... and the thing is, the ONLY reason you got hurt so bad the last time, and consequently the only reason you've become so cynical, is because of ONE-ITIS. If you work on lowering your susceptibility to one-itis (and eventually becoming immune to it), you'll find that you'll be able to keep your emotions in check when dealing with chicks, and as a result relationships become MUCH easier to deal with.
Having said that, there are indeed some girls who cheat and like to toy with guys. There are also some girls who do not do that. However, the sad reality is that a lot of the time, you can never know for sure which girls fall into which category. It's an unavoidable risk, regardless of how experienced the chick is. So what does this mean for you? It means that if this risk scares you enough, you will never have a relationship, ever. You'll avoid heartbreak, but you'll also never experience how fulfilling a good relationship can be. However, if you can keep your emotions in check and prevent yourself from developing one-itis, the potential "heartbreak" aspect will become a non-issue to you. If you're emotionally sound, breakups will start to feel similar to losing at one of those overpriced amusement park games - it sucks, but it's no big deal, right? Once you develop this kind of mindset, the "risk" of entering into a relationship will no longer bother you. In fact, it will COMPLETELY DISAPPEAR!!! When this happens, you have nothing to lose from a relationship. Worst case scenario, you gain some life experience. That's still a plus, no?
Always remain positive, bro
. You only harm yourself by being cynical and negative.Last Man Standing
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Don't have relationships with hors (non-virgins) - you are their pimp and nothing else!!!! Hors do not love or they don't know how to love - but they do know how to open their legs!!!!! Never take them seriously and have little emotion around them - only take your wife seriously!!