The reason why 80% of people who come on this site will fail is becasue they do not understadn the basic principle behind getting girls. YOU NEED CONFIDENCE. If you on't have confidence very few of you will get any chicks. That is why I have decided to put together this little thread that hopefully someone will get some use of. The main principle of this thread is that you don't need chicks to get confidence. Here are some ways that have worked for me.

1) Friends- You don't have to be the most popular guy in the school, all you need is friends that you truly love. I am not popular by any stretch of the imagination but I consider myself to bee one of the luckiest kids in my school becasue of the freinds I have.

2) Job- Get a job that lets you interact with people, this will greatly build up your conversational skills and eventually your confidence.

3) Sports- Play as many competitive sports as you can. It really allows you to relieve your stress and is a great opportunity to make friends.

I am sure there are a lot more but this is what has worked for me. For all you newbie's remember you will never change overnight. It took me a good part of two years to go from making friends to finally picking up chicks. There is no shortcut to this process, you will never be able to make a girl think you have confidence if youare lacking it.

I hope some of you find this useful.

I agree. The best way to gain confidence is to stay active and out of your comfort zone. No sitting at home.

It's something you obviously need, but it's not any kind of real factor in actually attracting any chicks.. so it's kind of irrelevant. Lots of guys have confidence not all those guys get chicks that much.

Like saying you need clothes to get chicks. Well yeah you do for sure.. but that's not really what we are looking for. Charisma on the other hand.

It's something you obviously need, but it's not any kind of real factor in actually attracting any chicks

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If you're saying confidence is necessary but not sufficient, then I agree with you. Saying it is irrelevant is wrong. Confidence is the foundation upon which charisma is built.

Yeah I guess, it all depends on what you say confidence is though.

It's not really a thing you can define, other then somebody doing actions because they belive they have the right to do them. You would NEED that to be a talkative charismatic person.