“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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looking for good opener for chat ;-)

roithi

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hello!

I'm not a really creative guy in things like opening a talk or chat to a unknown woman.

I think many men know it, when you surf on sites like Myspace, and than you find womans where you think "wow she looks great". but how shall i make the first step and contact her? - and thats i thing what i would like to know :D

I mean, when the first message is like "hi how are you? "...- i think thats kind of boring and most times you won't get a response...

So what would be a nice funny message to start a chat?

I'm waiting for answers

ps: I know my english is not perfect :D
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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read her profile, then use some c/f in your message, get her attention, then get her phone number and game her like any other chick
 

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Yeah, what the guy said above me.

Look for something in the profile to "tease" her about.

For example,

Alot of girls my age will put like 100 or 45 as their age, and their hometown like.. zimbabwe (i'm 18) so creepy people (like me i suppose) won't find them on browse lol.

So I usually say, wow you look alright for a 68 year old from zimbabwe... blah blah blah.. write back sometime.

Or.. I recently messaged a girl who had I'm bringing sexy back as a pic caption.

And I messaged her to politely tell her that, no..I'm the one bringing sexy back, and she can try to bring it back all she wants but.. I already brought it.

lol.

Just have fun with it, its the damn internet. lol

So I often say something like, Wel
 

roithi

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but what can you say if you don't have much informations about her?

like a "universal" opener *g*

I know in myspace you always get lots of informations, but there are a lot of sites (like the one I'm talking from, but it's small compared to myspace, so you won't know it)...and you just have informations about the age, and places where they go out....
...and in Austria you won't find girls who choose "Zimbabe" in there country preferences - you know we are so proud beeing Austrians *ggg* :D
 

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Just be cool about it.

Hell say, Hey etc etc wanna chat.

It doesn't really matter lol.

or..

"You probably get a million messages a day from guys, tell me how I can get your attention".

heh..i dunno.
 
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