I came here because im kind of getting tired of stalling when asking a girl to be my G.F or even worse ,trying to get those seven powerful digits is a problem that im trying to work with .

This is a problem that keeps on haunting me and it keeps getting me shutdown and even if I got a girl at the bottom of my feet .I never take advantage to finally close the deal .

Sometimes I see the frustration in this girls faces like what is it going to take me to make this guy like me. The bad thing is that the mistakes that I’ve made before have shaped me up. Sometimes girls feel like im playing hard to get and they start going crazy like sometimes it seems like the girls are the ones that are trying to get in my pants…Without knowing that they are not the problem and that is me who is a wuss and that im supposly trying to find the right words but everytime I think about it is like I almost never have the right words to say...and even though deep inside i might have them i just freeze...

Now that Im in a rebuildin process to make myself better with girls and im trying to keep from shooting my self for bad aproaches or keep myself and from feeding my EGO .

I don’t like asking many people about how to deal with this.. because they see me as an opponent not only guys but girls too they will do the impossible to bring you down….Either by telling You sh!t that is not important whatsoever or by making an ass of yourself and it sucks..im getting tired of it….

Im like most guys around here we all want the samethin , and thats to become better at attracting our opposite sex.

I’m probably not the first guy who this has hapens too and probably not the last.I could say I can approach most girls without any problem. To the fact that I can sustain a good conversation and have them laughing and opening them up to the point where they just fall for me and cant resist me.


But then I always have the problem that i go back to the conscious part of my brain and it keeps me falling down and not taking charge, to take what I want.....

I probably feel like I should be doing much better than this and It should be much better now but its like what is the point of knowing how to attract a girl to where it seems where they cant get enough of you if you don’t know how to get past this obstacles that get on your way…

IF ANYONE HAS SOME OF THOSE AWESOME LINES THAT SEEM LIKE THEY NEVER GET OLD AND ALMOST SEEM LIKE THEY ARE FULLPROOF....Either they are for getting a girls number or to ask them to be your G.F ..and you would like to share them that would be COOL..I'D BE NICE IF YOU POSTED THEM.

why are u asking a girl to be your g/f in the first place ? You never do it. Either 1) its assumed after a while, or 2) she throws u the proposition.

Man dont listen to the dude above me, he probably sitting at home lonely. You do ask females to be your girlfriend or you gon be lonely like dude above.

But I cant give you no motivation but just grab your nuts and be a man, I mean you do have nuts right? Well if you do then you know what to do.

When you're dating a girl and you want to make her your girlfriend, the best bet is to just keep having fun with her, and wait until SHE brings up the status of your relationship somehow, like "What would we be considered?" or something like that. Then you ask her. If she never brings it up, I take it as her not wanting to be committed, since usually girls are the ones to want it first.

Bunk 040 said:

Man dont listen to the dude above me, he probably sitting at home lonely. You do ask females to be your girlfriend or you gon be lonely like dude above.

But I cant give you no motivation but just grab your nuts and be a man, I mean you do have nuts right? Well if you do then you know what to do.

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?? Asking someone you're dating to be your g/f is not the way it goes. I really don't know what world you're living in. I don't know how that has to do with grabbing your nuts and being a man.


ps: I was sitting at home yesterday afteroon, but I wasn't lonely. College Football was on ! DUH ! lol