comic_relief
Master Don Juan
Hahahaha . . . hey guys,
Yeah, I have returned back to the board for a period of time. Don't know how long it has been, but a shout out to all guys that are from 2004 or older. Now to the tip that I have.
I noticed when I left that the board was going more and more AFC. No no no this is not a *****fest or anything about the board. I also saw people on the site bashing everyone for being AFC. I have come back to report what I saw in my life and how I worked out my relationship.
1.) I learned what most women want most in a man... it is not sex nor is it a jerk quality (both two very good things). They want to be cared for. They want to know that they can be cared after. They want to feel safe. That was first and foremost.
2.) Act like a gentlemen. Stop saying this jerk vs. nice guy debate. It is bullsh!t and most of the older guys know it too. It is a widely held secret out in the world that there is a third kind of male. A gentlemen, but it is very hard for a person to strike a happy medium. Let me explain how I found my happy medium.
I have always opened the doors for women, but not men. I always felt that men are strong and don't need it. I then realized one day that I have been doing it. Now I do it naturally for no reason other than being nice. Women started noticing me and talking to me about it. I talk back to them. I also realized that I could be sexual with them too. I started joking with them but I was a complete gentleman to them at the same time. I did not stare at their breasts. I stared into her eyes and had a meaningful conversation (watch the movie "Hitch" for more insight on that). I started getting immeadiate results. Women began to approach me during college. I already have a girlfriend so I cannot do anything with any of them. I have made many friends out of girls, but they still want to go out on a date with me.
3.) Learn to DANCE!!! Girls love a man that can dance because the man must take control of her and know how to lead. In ancient times, dancing was just as heralded as high as fighting. For a man, must be able to lead a woman.
4.) Don't change for a woman. If you are christain, don't change because she wants you to become Jewish. My girlfriend almost lost me over stupid sh!t like that. I told her either take me as is or leave me right now. She has not tried since.
5.) Use gifts sparingly. I only get my girlfriends gifts once a month or less. It usually is something cheap like a teddy bear or something like that (she collects them). Everything in moderation increases attraction. Everything overdone is a reason women get bored.
6.) Same as gifts, use time sparingly. They begin to wonder what you are doing and where you are. My girlfriend does this all the time. She knows that I am a god among men. She does not know where I am all the time, but she does trust me. She knows that I could have got with over five different women since I got to college. She tried to curb the amount of girls that I see but I tell her to take it or leave it. She stops with the bullsh!t as long as I leave her with a hardened stance. She knows it and respects it.
7.) Become Social. Even if I did lose my girlfriend. I can still manage to go get a new one. I have a lot of social proof in the form of my friends. I chill out with a lot of people. Plus my name is out there.
8.) Become well rounded. I am currently at a liberal arts school. They are trying to make me well rounded. I begin to think differently about how life works now.
9.) Join a sport and have fun with your life. Get a passion and some confidence.
10.) Respect yourself - I have always had a saying that went like this, "If you cannot command your own self-respect, than how do you expect to gain other people to respect you."
These are my ideas on how I became who I am today. I know that I cannot take sh!t from anyone and I am very active. I worked on myself for a complete year. I still continue to work on myself after I had a girlfriend. I still continue to work on myself.
comic_relief
Yeah, I have returned back to the board for a period of time. Don't know how long it has been, but a shout out to all guys that are from 2004 or older. Now to the tip that I have.
I noticed when I left that the board was going more and more AFC. No no no this is not a *****fest or anything about the board. I also saw people on the site bashing everyone for being AFC. I have come back to report what I saw in my life and how I worked out my relationship.
1.) I learned what most women want most in a man... it is not sex nor is it a jerk quality (both two very good things). They want to be cared for. They want to know that they can be cared after. They want to feel safe. That was first and foremost.
2.) Act like a gentlemen. Stop saying this jerk vs. nice guy debate. It is bullsh!t and most of the older guys know it too. It is a widely held secret out in the world that there is a third kind of male. A gentlemen, but it is very hard for a person to strike a happy medium. Let me explain how I found my happy medium.
I have always opened the doors for women, but not men. I always felt that men are strong and don't need it. I then realized one day that I have been doing it. Now I do it naturally for no reason other than being nice. Women started noticing me and talking to me about it. I talk back to them. I also realized that I could be sexual with them too. I started joking with them but I was a complete gentleman to them at the same time. I did not stare at their breasts. I stared into her eyes and had a meaningful conversation (watch the movie "Hitch" for more insight on that). I started getting immeadiate results. Women began to approach me during college. I already have a girlfriend so I cannot do anything with any of them. I have made many friends out of girls, but they still want to go out on a date with me.
3.) Learn to DANCE!!! Girls love a man that can dance because the man must take control of her and know how to lead. In ancient times, dancing was just as heralded as high as fighting. For a man, must be able to lead a woman.
4.) Don't change for a woman. If you are christain, don't change because she wants you to become Jewish. My girlfriend almost lost me over stupid sh!t like that. I told her either take me as is or leave me right now. She has not tried since.
5.) Use gifts sparingly. I only get my girlfriends gifts once a month or less. It usually is something cheap like a teddy bear or something like that (she collects them). Everything in moderation increases attraction. Everything overdone is a reason women get bored.
6.) Same as gifts, use time sparingly. They begin to wonder what you are doing and where you are. My girlfriend does this all the time. She knows that I am a god among men. She does not know where I am all the time, but she does trust me. She knows that I could have got with over five different women since I got to college. She tried to curb the amount of girls that I see but I tell her to take it or leave it. She stops with the bullsh!t as long as I leave her with a hardened stance. She knows it and respects it.
7.) Become Social. Even if I did lose my girlfriend. I can still manage to go get a new one. I have a lot of social proof in the form of my friends. I chill out with a lot of people. Plus my name is out there.
8.) Become well rounded. I am currently at a liberal arts school. They are trying to make me well rounded. I begin to think differently about how life works now.
9.) Join a sport and have fun with your life. Get a passion and some confidence.
10.) Respect yourself - I have always had a saying that went like this, "If you cannot command your own self-respect, than how do you expect to gain other people to respect you."
These are my ideas on how I became who I am today. I know that I cannot take sh!t from anyone and I am very active. I worked on myself for a complete year. I still continue to work on myself after I had a girlfriend. I still continue to work on myself.
comic_relief
