i got a question, if you just plan to flame then great.

anyways, ok well just came from my gfs house we ****ed. and Skip2mylou, if you are wondering what the hell, ill explain it to you soon haha, but damn shes confusing.. anyways.


okay, well , i wanna **** her again before our anniversary but dont know how to say it, i can barely ever see her only if i sneak over, and i know that i shouldnt just be like iwanna **** you but just be like hey, i wanna come over and cuddle with you and then ****, but damn, would being straight forward make her feel as if im using her ? nvm i never asked her to **** before and we always do.. what am i thinking... but i really want to **** soon its urgent cus anniversary comes soon. and i dont wanna hand over the laptop that easily. thats her present. i know i know, u wish u were my girl friend too Don juan forever, lol, so i wont take you "flaming me" seriously, u are looking to get a rise out of me just like any other ***** out there, because i know you're just jelous. its ok, i understand.

ok now to those who plan to not flame me thanks. give me ur tips on what u usually do with ur girl, u just cuddle to sex, or do u actually tell her ass to get in the room cus u wanna fck her? i know people would think thats being the "alpha male", but then again i doubt it. so let me know what u think...

If she says no, that its too risky, which is true, but i mean she is very adventerous when shes horny and not giving a ****, and worrying later, but i cant handle waiting until shes horny as hell to not even care if she gets caught... do i demand it or not? or let her control when sex happends....

If she's all for it when she's horny as hell, why not stop worrying about how or if you should ask her for it, and instead, just go make her horny as hell? Sounds pretty simple to me.

Give her a massage, smell her, whisper in her ears, run your fingers thru her hair, whatever it is that gets her hot, do it. Then she'll be the one asking for sex, or, lol, ordering you to get your ass into the bedroom.

Yeah, but i cannot go "see" her at her house basically cus her parents are strict and always under house arrest, only way she will take that risk is if shes horny as hell. i know its sad. so i couldnt just go there and turn her on, she would never do it. but when shes horny shes seriously crazy.

You got a back seat?

But seriously folks...(or folk?) It depends on the girl. Some girls are very open about their sexuality, and some are the complete opposite. But from what I've learned, is if you can get them comfortable, they'll be open to anything.

Wherever this happens, it'll come to you on how to approach that. Usually she'll get the idea once things start getting a bit more intimate. She's your g/f right? How long have you been dating her? How many times have you had sex with her? Usually when I get into an LTR, I already know her sexual habits and ways, you just need to learn what turns HER on.

Call her. Speak in a low, sexual tone, and tell her to visualize what you're about to tell her. Make sure she turns off the lights in her room and lays down on her bed. Then, just tell her things that she can imagine. Sexual, sensual things. Tell her how much you want her right now. Tell her each and every thing you want to do to her right now. Don't be nasty. Speak slowly and softly. Make her hang on your every word.

I've done this with a few girls when the circumstances didn't allow me to actually be with them. One girl told me that I always made her soooo wet when I would talk to her like that. She said that I would have been a very happy man if I was with her right then.

Get her horny that way, and then she'll be begging you to sneak over.

Skillz man, skillz.

Damn very nice. as i was reading that lol i was reading it very slow weird, but i wish i could do that , but i just like trance addict pointed out, my gf is not open with her sexuality, that is whenever i "talk" about sex, she begins to think thats all i think about and only reason im with her.

damn i made a mistake. i came home today after having sex with her, then i dont know why, i was being a damn psycho. i kept telling her how amazing it was and how much i love her in the voice mail i left her when i got home and she was asleep, but i mean, i dont wanna just hide the fact that her sex is good, or should i? .. seriously the wrong time for me to start being sweet to her though.. im sure she will get pissed off lol. but damn is there any way to free her from that?? Make her feel secure about sexual thoughts? She never wants me to talk about it, she said it herself, cus how it makes her feel. BTW, she told me that like 5 months ago, maybe things changed, but we've been dating for 11 months now.

I'm thinking ... well ive had this "suprise" for her ready, for quite some time now.. for about 3 weeks. i havnt shown her yet. i think im going to call her tomorrow and tell her that i want to finally bring it to her cus shes waiting, and tell her that i need to give it to her by tonite before it gets screwed up. make her think like its something real like flowers.. i dunno. its an actual picture, but ill tell her the love in the pic would of been gone if i waited another day. But anyways, i know once im in the house, we will defenetly have sex, but there is just one thing though, she seriously doesnt want me to go to her house cus her parents would call the police on me and shed get her ass beat if they found out etc etc etc. but anyways, another thing, tonite, once i gave her "what she wanted", she awsnt feeling as "daring", and she basically told me i had to go cus shes worried that her mom will catch us WHICH, is when it finally kicks in.

but i need to know, ok, do i just DRAGGGGG it on, like if she wants it now , do i just basically take like 15 minuts make out, 15 minutes on body, 10 min on *****, etc... drag it on. or do i go A B C within 10 minutes then ****?? But that leads to us not being together as long and just basically cutting the time in half once she has what she wants. but i rememberd once i didnt give it to her and she lost that sexual feeling i think.. im not sure dont really remember, and i basically screwed myself when i didnt give it to her then and there.

so yeah, she LOVES getting her nipples sucked (it always makes her wanting to ****) to getting her **** sucked, and by now i know thats all it takes cus she always wants to **** afterwards. shes a damn animal when shes horny though like **** it turns me on like hell. but afterwards its like she doesnt wanna talk about it.

Lol, what can I say man? I made you hang on my every word. If that's not proof, I dunno what is.

If you liked it, why not rep me? I'd like a little e-fame. Thanks in advance.

On-topic, do you think she might be ashamed of her sexual side? When she's horny, she lets it all go, and then after, you say she doesn't wanna talk about it? Maybe she feels guilty or something, like she gave in to temptation. In her mind, that's bad. You need to explain to her that its ok to be sexual. Its better than ok, its actually really great! lol. Make sure she understands that.

Its probably something in her past that caused her to have this mental block about sex. Maybe how she was raised or something. You're going against her mind here man. Social conditioning. Its lots of psychological shyt. Just make sure that she's uber comfortable with you. That's a start anyway.

Hell yeah. Shes always guilty. A LOT more than she is now though, but before shed often regret it and cry etc. Shed always tell me to grind against her, and then as i was out of no where shed just pop it in, but it took a while to get her that turned on, but now she tells me to put it in without a hastle lol, but seriously, it turned me on A LOT more and and the sex was more memorable than it is now, i guess cus she was harder to get, maybe i should do the same?. but i dont know because sometimes we have sex and she just stops half ways, i think its because maybe i did something wrong but then again maybe shes guilt tripping. i hate it.

Like she always promised herself to wait until marriage but with me she lost it. I think its because i never asked for sex, the 5 months we dated, and she realized thats what i wasnt all about, but seriously man, she tricks me a lot sometimes.

When she lost her virginity to me , we were under the covers in pure dark, i had just eaten her out and crap, and we were just goin to sleep, and then she told me to "f her ass", and i thought i was getting her ass but it was her *****, then she cried. its a long story , but anyways...

sometimes i seriously feel like shes using me for sex, cus she tells me to come over and once i sex her she says that i have to leave... is theer any way to stop this from happening????????????? i know i shouldnt complain but then again i do feel a lot for her.

rep you? never done it before but ill try. lol

"f her ass", and i thought i was getting her ass but it was her *****, then she cried." :moon: LOL

Whoa man..... that's a little scary. Like border-line unbalanced. You sure she's the greatest choice in girlfriends?

Lol, then again, if you try to break up with her, she might threaten to kill you or something. Watch your back.


Yea, if you wanna rep someone, just click on the little scales thing over there on the left. Hit "I approve", leave a comment if you like, and send. No biggie.

Dasani Water when I get around a girl I'm always in sexual state. I've been doing it for a while so it feels very comfortable and things just usually progress.

My voice tone is low, slow, licking my lips, etc.....you should just get her moanin over the phone then just procede to sex in person.

Remember, it's not the words that count, it's how you say them...and sexual state has been the saving grace for me.

With it I get love from nearly all women, without it...I'll be getting rejected all over the place.

Lol, he says, :crackup:

"i know i know, u wish u were my girl friend too Don juan forever, lol, so i wont take you "flaming me" seriously, u are looking to get a rise out of me just like any other ***** out there, because i know you're just jelous. its ok, i understand."

Lol, dude I "so wanna be you" you just don't know dude.....lol, do you know how much I look up to you? :crackup:

dasani - shes a psycho and ur life will always be full of worries if ur with her unless she makes major changes