Every day I look at this site I see guys complain about how hard getting women is.

Every day I look at this sight I see guys boast and tell about how easy getting women for them is.

And every time I look at this sight I wonder, where do I fit in here? Getting women isn't easy for me, but it's not hard either.

Now I think, is it even necessary? Does it really matter whether it's hard or easy? No, whether its hard, or easy, it just is.

It doesn't matter if you suck at getting women, and it doesn't matter whether you're great at it. What really matters is if deep down, you are happy with yourself. If you're not, then ask yourself, why am I not happy with myself? Come to a conclusion, and then move towards improving yourself until you can be happy with yourself. Being happy with yourself will go a long ways towards increasing your success with women. So really, getting women doesn't have to be hard or easy, it just is. Work on yourself, be happy with yourself, it will help the rest come along much more smoothly.

Very true, and goes along with a lot of the stuff I've been learning lately. If getting with women is what you WANT, what you REALLY want, then it should never feel BAD or like a CHORE. If it does, it means either your thoughts or your actions aren't in line with what you're really after.

There are MORE women than men in this world. There are MORE attractive women than attractive men, so there's an abundance of women out there for anyone who wants to have them. And if you truly see yourself as a potential "Mr Right", then there are many "Mrs Right"s out there for you.

Attraction? Nature works all that out. Has been doing so for years. All you have to do is listen to it.

If it's hard, you won't get it.
If it's easy, you don't want it.