“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Which do I choose?

green69

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A good buddy of mine (who has been out of town for a few months) is back today, and I was gonna go out with him and another friend of mine.

As that was being vaguely planned (nothing confirmed yet on either sides) this girl from work who I have been hanging out with recently wants me to go to the bar with her friend (who I am also friends with). Both of these girls are cute, I wouldn't mind hooking up or fooling around but nothing more.

Anyways...my dilemma is that I really wanna go out with my 2 buddies who I haven't seen in a long time. Plus...the downtown area will be very busy because of an event going on right now and it will be a b*tch to go downtown to a bar w/ the 2 girls.

So who should I go out with? I don't really wanna say no to the two girls from work...cuz of course it will be a fun night but at the same time it will be very hard to get downtown, and I've just started hanging out with them the past few weeks and I don't wanna give the impression like I am blowing them off. But at the same time I'd really like to see my 2 buddies and go out and do something.
 

WC2

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The bar is a place to find chicks, not to bring chicks.

Go out with your friends, and tell this girl the truth. Tell her where you'll probably be and if they want to stop by they can, if not then whatever. A vague club date never takes precedent a night on the town with your boys, in which you have a very good chance of picking some girls up.

Out of curiosity, what city?
 

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Surely you can figure out how to do two things in one night.
 

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Maybe you could blend the 2 groups together. Your 2 friends lookin' for girls? You just so happen to have brought 2 girls along with you. How convienent.
 
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