disciple
Senior Don Juan
This is taken from a question posed to me by an anonymous DJ
Hey, what's going on man.
Let me see...........
Well, in response to to your first question about two chicks, one cute, one ugly, I have a question of my own.
Why approach an ugly chick when they are plenty of good looking ones? (Unless you really like ugly broads, but I doubt that)
Let me give you a scenario that will help answer both questions: Let's say you were somewhere where there are alot of women, let's say a party.
Let's say you really don't know anybody there and there are several attractive women around.
Now in this setting, the first thing you want to do is to create some "social proof".
Social proof says that if one girl is having a good time with you the others will see this and assume your cool to interact with.
So, find a girl, doesn't even have to be all that attractive in fact she can even be average looking, find any reason or excuse to strike up a casual conversation with her about the party, about the drinks, the music, the people, whatever.
Now, remember this because this is the key.
While your talking, while your listening, make sure you are smiling alot and really enjoying yourself and the company of the girl your talking to even if she doesn't look like anything special.
Use all your conversational skills, charm, humor, charisma, etc. (If you are weak on social skills, you will need to learn how to develop them)
Bottomline, make the girl smile, laugh, and feel comfortable and happy talking to you.
If you do this, I guarantee the other women, especially the hot ones, will perk up and take immediate notice.
There is something about a man who appears to be positive, fun, confident, and knows how to have a good time and make others have a good time that women find irresistable.
Now, you don't have to talk to this first girl the whole night, just long enough to accomplish your purpose then keep it moving.
That's another thing, don't spend too much time talking to any one girl, instead talk to one, get her smiling and having a good time talking to you and then casually slide off, chill by yourself for a little while and then talk to another one.
This way you don't catch a case of oneitus for any one girl and by not moving immediately from girl to girl, you don't appear to be some desperate loser just trying to nail anything he can catch.
That would be a huge turnoff because all women like to feel like they're special (even though in reality no women is any more special that the next).
Another thing, always leave a conversation on a high note.
Don't talk to any girl long enough for things to get boring.
When other women see you talking to a girl, all they should SEE is the good times, nothing else.
Then they associate positive thoughts and feelings with you and they will be more hungry for your attention.
This is where female competitiveness comes into play and women will start competing for your attention.
If you do this right, women that didn't know you from a pile of sh*t when you walked in will assume that you must be a high value man because of your obvious charm with the ladies.
At this point, you can now narrow your focus down to your primary target, whoever she may be.
She may be one of the girls you've already conversed with or you may not have spoken to her already, it doesn't matter.
After you've talked to her for a little while, you want to isolate her and get her away from other people's eyes as quickly as possible.
Women are always worried about other people looking at them as sluts because of society's bullsh*t.
So, you could say something like I need some air and ask her to come outside with you and then walk down the block or something.
Now that you have her alone, tell her that she smells great and then lean in toward her neck like you are trying to smell her scent better and then observe her reaction.
By leaning in that close, you are invading her personal space and if she DOES NOT move back, flinch, or show any signs of being uncomfortable, that means she is comfortable with you being in her close personal space which usually means she wants you in her PRIVATE space, if you know what I mean.
If she passes this test, look into her eyes, pull her gently to you, and kiss her.
If your kissing skills are up to par, she'll be really horny and most likely ready to go somewhere and f*ck your brains out.
You can use this basic strategy on individual women by themselves or in a group.
The only reason a group is harder is because if you try to talk to your primary target with her girlfriends right there usually at least one or more of them will try to c*ckblock you.
Usually it will be one of less attractive ones who is jealous of the attention her prettier friend always gets.
So, the trick is to open up the whole group first and save your primary target for later.
You walk up and ask them a question that requires a woman's opinion and use that to start a conversation and introduce yourself and get their names.
Also, pay attention to which girl seems to be the leader.
Women basically have a herd mentality and they tend to follow what they see other women do.
Sometimes the leader of the herd isn't the best looking one.
Bottomline, if you open her up and make her feel good talking to you, you automatically have conquered the rest.
Now, pick whichever one you want and apply what you've learned.
Hey, what's going on man.
Let me see...........
Well, in response to to your first question about two chicks, one cute, one ugly, I have a question of my own.
Why approach an ugly chick when they are plenty of good looking ones? (Unless you really like ugly broads, but I doubt that)
Let me give you a scenario that will help answer both questions: Let's say you were somewhere where there are alot of women, let's say a party.
Let's say you really don't know anybody there and there are several attractive women around.
Now in this setting, the first thing you want to do is to create some "social proof".
Social proof says that if one girl is having a good time with you the others will see this and assume your cool to interact with.
So, find a girl, doesn't even have to be all that attractive in fact she can even be average looking, find any reason or excuse to strike up a casual conversation with her about the party, about the drinks, the music, the people, whatever.
Now, remember this because this is the key.
While your talking, while your listening, make sure you are smiling alot and really enjoying yourself and the company of the girl your talking to even if she doesn't look like anything special.
Use all your conversational skills, charm, humor, charisma, etc. (If you are weak on social skills, you will need to learn how to develop them)
Bottomline, make the girl smile, laugh, and feel comfortable and happy talking to you.
If you do this, I guarantee the other women, especially the hot ones, will perk up and take immediate notice.
There is something about a man who appears to be positive, fun, confident, and knows how to have a good time and make others have a good time that women find irresistable.
Now, you don't have to talk to this first girl the whole night, just long enough to accomplish your purpose then keep it moving.
That's another thing, don't spend too much time talking to any one girl, instead talk to one, get her smiling and having a good time talking to you and then casually slide off, chill by yourself for a little while and then talk to another one.
This way you don't catch a case of oneitus for any one girl and by not moving immediately from girl to girl, you don't appear to be some desperate loser just trying to nail anything he can catch.
That would be a huge turnoff because all women like to feel like they're special (even though in reality no women is any more special that the next).
Another thing, always leave a conversation on a high note.
Don't talk to any girl long enough for things to get boring.
When other women see you talking to a girl, all they should SEE is the good times, nothing else.
Then they associate positive thoughts and feelings with you and they will be more hungry for your attention.
This is where female competitiveness comes into play and women will start competing for your attention.
If you do this right, women that didn't know you from a pile of sh*t when you walked in will assume that you must be a high value man because of your obvious charm with the ladies.
At this point, you can now narrow your focus down to your primary target, whoever she may be.
She may be one of the girls you've already conversed with or you may not have spoken to her already, it doesn't matter.
After you've talked to her for a little while, you want to isolate her and get her away from other people's eyes as quickly as possible.
Women are always worried about other people looking at them as sluts because of society's bullsh*t.
So, you could say something like I need some air and ask her to come outside with you and then walk down the block or something.
Now that you have her alone, tell her that she smells great and then lean in toward her neck like you are trying to smell her scent better and then observe her reaction.
By leaning in that close, you are invading her personal space and if she DOES NOT move back, flinch, or show any signs of being uncomfortable, that means she is comfortable with you being in her close personal space which usually means she wants you in her PRIVATE space, if you know what I mean.
If she passes this test, look into her eyes, pull her gently to you, and kiss her.
If your kissing skills are up to par, she'll be really horny and most likely ready to go somewhere and f*ck your brains out.
You can use this basic strategy on individual women by themselves or in a group.
The only reason a group is harder is because if you try to talk to your primary target with her girlfriends right there usually at least one or more of them will try to c*ckblock you.
Usually it will be one of less attractive ones who is jealous of the attention her prettier friend always gets.
So, the trick is to open up the whole group first and save your primary target for later.
You walk up and ask them a question that requires a woman's opinion and use that to start a conversation and introduce yourself and get their names.
Also, pay attention to which girl seems to be the leader.
Women basically have a herd mentality and they tend to follow what they see other women do.
Sometimes the leader of the herd isn't the best looking one.
Bottomline, if you open her up and make her feel good talking to you, you automatically have conquered the rest.
Now, pick whichever one you want and apply what you've learned.
