Everytime that I visit this So-Suave website I always seem to read on more than one of the threads that so many guys find approaching a hot babe as such a difficult assignment, yet it isn't very hard to do at all.

Hot babes don't usually attack guys who approach them like a Bull Terrier Dog attacks the people who try to pat it.

Hot babes are so much weaker than the majority of guys are both physically and psychologically, there is no reason to be affraid of them.

Just like most guys desire hot babes as their partners, hot babes desire guys to go out on dates with them as well and in most cases they find it a lot harder not to be in a relationship than most guys do.

How can you expect to have a hot babe as a girlfriend or a sexual partner if you won't approach them, talk to them, and get to know them.

Never in my life have I seen a horny Rooster living in a cage full of Hens that refused to approach those Hens in its desire to engage in sexual intercourse with one of them, as this is the only way that it is going to get to knock its rocks off.

If a dumb Rooster realises this then surely the so called smarter human Males should do the same.

Hot babes spend a fortune on clothing, jewelery, perfumes, and the grooming of their hair in order to attract the guys, yet so many of you are too frightened to approach them.

I can't understand why you are like this, as it is so easy to walk up to any hot babe and talk to her, if you don't do this you will never have a hot babe in your life, and it is so easy to do, you are strange people.

People think too much. Roosters act on instinct.

This doesn't necessarily just occur with hot women either. A lot of guys are like this with hollerin' at chicks period.

I think those guys who are afraid period if you'll look usually aren't very good at other kind of social situations either. You've just gotta bite the bullet and take your licks until you improve, I suppose.

Most of the time people think too much and are to afriad of what people would think of them for the act then to actually do the act.

Because let's be honest, if you approach random chicks all the time your bound to get some people thinking your creepy. Are you willing to accept that?

She might not think it though, and if she doesn't then great. Nothing went wrong.

If you approach hot babes in the right situations then they won't think of you as being creepy and these situations present themselves to just about every guy who lives in a large city several times a day.

There is no point in worrying about what other people think about you as they are not living your life you are, what others think doesn't really matter.

It isn't difficult to approach any hot babe if you accept the fact that not all of them will be attracted to you, if only one out of every one hundred hot babes that you see is attracted to you, you will always be Fu-cking one if you are approaching them continuously, this makes great sence to me. :yes:

We're not actually AFRAID of the woman. Geez. At least, I hope that's not what you're saying.

What an AFC is afraid of when approaching a woman is two things... or at least, these are MY two things.

ONE: rejection. Rejection sucks, because it lets you know that you're not up to scratch, confirming your fears that you aren't good-looking/smart/funny/rich/charming enough to get women. If you don't approach, you don't risk being rejected... so at least you're not SURE.

TWO: following through. What if somehow you succeed and actually go out with this girl? If you're an AFC, you have anxiety around women, and probably have less of an idea what to do on a date. What will you say? How will you make a move to kiss her? Will you come too early? The list of AFC date anxieties goes on and on. It also is a rejection thing, in that screwing up a date will mean that you weren't good enough for her in the first place, and only pulled the wool over her eyes before she saw the REAL you.


It's really not that complicated. These are real fears, they're not something that you can magically wish away. They only go away from increasing your self-confidence by a) improving yourself as a person and b) actually approaching. It takes time.

They're just unwilling to make the effort.