I just met a girl today and asked her to be my lab parter for a lab class. Got her number, but she probably assumes for a class use.

How should I approach her?

Just by reading your sig I can tell you're insecure. The tip mentioned above is probably your best bet (if your friends are cool people) but start it off w/ a question about lab class homework, then say, "Cool, thanks. I gotta go, I'm meeting up w/ some friends. Hey, we're going to go see (Insert film title here) later, wanna come?"

Hi Wanna have coffee sometime?

I put that in my sig cuz I get annoyed when people correct my spelling and grammer. Too seem less insecure, maybe I should write "i know my spelling and grammer sucks, don't point it out you grammer-elitist prick"

Anyways, all my close friends have gone home for the summer, I the only one from my group taking summer school.

Any other tips? She asked by to study with her before our lab tommarow, I'm thinking about asking her to go out to get some coffee or icecream thursday night after our study session/before our lab. However, if we thursday night, we'll have to go right after our lab since it gets out late. If we go out on a weekend night, she might have plans already. If I ask her out next week, that may be too far off considering i'm gonna see her 3 days a week. I don't wanna wait too long to ask her out, but, after I make a date arrangement, I don't like to see her too often before the date.

Man, thats alotta stuff. Oh well, nothings perfect. If she likes me, i'll all work out ok, but doesn't hurt to be a smooth as possible.

FCK!!!!!

just found her on facebook, she has a boyfriend. end of thread.

Go study with her at a social place. Maybe like a starbucks or something if you're into that kinda scene.

Hell a library works too, as long as you guys are isolated.

EDIT: Minute too late, tough luck bro

Here's some more details for your interest:

When we met, she said that we have met before freshmen year. I didn't remember her at the time, but after looking at her facebook pics for a while, I did finally recognize her. (looked at a pic of her ass for a while, some how I recognized her (yeah, her ass is that good)). She was a friends friend, but she blew me off when I tried to go talk to her. Back then I was a hardcore AFC and was 30 pounds lighter, so I don't really blame her too much. She was all friendly to me when I met her next time. Amazing to see first hand how superficial people can be. Or maybe she's just using me for my brains, hense the study session.

Edit:
man, im way better looking than her boyfriend.

Another edit:
wait, since im bigger and better looking than her boyfriend, maybe I can get her to dump him and or cheat on him. I'll see what her body language is at the study session, and i'll let you know the results tommarow.

protienpowder said:

go out to get some coffee or icecream thursday night after our study session/before our lab. However, if we thursday night, we'll have to go right after our lab since it gets out late. If we go out on a weekend night, she might have plans already. If I ask her out next week, that may be too far off considering i'm gonna see her 3 days a week. I don't wanna wait too long to ask her out, but, after I make a date arrangement, I don't like to see her too often before the date.
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That "ice cream" thing reminds me of the famous "puppy dogs and ice cream" line from "Swingers".
I think you're looking into this WAY too much man. If you're THAT wrapped up in this then you're destined to fail. No way you could act natural if you're plotting every equasion.
As far as the boyfriend thing goes, most of the girls I date have boyfriends. "Boyfriend" doesn't mean "closed for business".

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Another edit:
wait, since im bigger and better looking than her boyfriend, maybe I can get her to dump him and or cheat on him. I'll see what her body language is at the study session, and i'll let you know the results tommarow.

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Not to be a hater, but you seem kind of insecure, and it's going to take more than looks for a girl to dump his guy, if they're serious at all. Sounds like you need to read the DJ bible thru a few more times too, if you have to ask how to ask someone out. The second she was your lab partner, you should have been laying down game and the # close should have happened the first time you ever met.

hi2u said:

Not to be a hater, but you seem kind of insecure, and it's going to take more than looks for a girl to dump his guy, if they're serious at all. Sounds like you need to read the DJ bible thru a few more times too, if you have to ask how to ask someone out. The second she was your lab partner, you should have been laying down game and the # close should have happened the first time you ever met.

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I did get her number when I met her. I did mention I met her freshmen year, but that was like 2 years ago, and I didn't remember her when we met the 2nd time.

I did read the dj bible and fastseduction side, but reading is not gonna give all the answers you need. You need experiance to be a dj. Like i mentioned before, I had a plan to ask her out. I just wanted advice for experianced dj's.

Sounds like you are further than I read in your original post, you'll have to excuse my assumptions. Just remember to be playful when you guys are together. Don't take things too seriously. Tease her (i.e. close the book while you guys are reading it with a big sh*t-eating grin on your face). Studying together seems to give the most natural opportunities to Kino as you should be sharing pens, paper, books, etc. As a DJ, you should strive to get to the point where you shouldn't even need to go on a date, how about fvcking her ontop of your homework after a bunch of pent of sexual tension gets released? ... but if that makes you feel looser and more confident, by all means.

Good luck man!

hi2u said:

Sounds like you are further than I read in your original post, you'll have to excuse my assumptions. Just remember to be playful when you guys are together. Don't take things too seriously. Tease her (i.e. close the book while you guys are reading it with a big sh*t-eating grin on your face). Studying together seems to give the most natural opportunities to Kino as you should be sharing pens, paper, books, etc. As a DJ, you should strive to get to the point where you shouldn't even need to go on a date, how about fvcking her ontop of your homework after a bunch of pent of sexual tension gets released? ... but if that makes you feel looser and more confident, by all means.

Good luck man!

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Thanks for the advice dude. Even through she has a bf, I can still look at the glass as half full. I have someone to develop my social skills/kino with out that pressure since I nothing to lose. I can be more confortable being mean and alittle offensive.